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Should I reach out to him or do you feel it’s awkward and not appropriate?

Yesterday my mom was in town and we went out to a nice restaurant and our waiter was a nice guy who looks like he’s a tad younger than me but we are in our 20s.. he was very nice and he was a nice looking guy.

He was attentive and he told us some of his favorite things on the menu. He did a good job and maybe in the back of my mind I thought he was cute and maybe said it but didn’t really think anything of it.. just a guy doing his job..

He did make eye contact with me even when just talking to my mom.. He did ask questions and asked how I got here since I’m not from this state.. I told him I was an art teacher and I told him how I stopped teaching in December to pursue something else and he tells me he understands completely and he just changed his major in college… did a 180 from film media to production…

I could tell my mom was up to something.. but the conversation was nice and he said he could give us recommendations for things to do and he tried to see if there were any free art tickets to go to the art museum.

My mom embarrassed me and told him I need to meet people and hang out and she ask him for his number and she says “maybe you have friends you can hook her up with “

It’s awkward for me and I tell him that he doesn’t have to do that or feel obligated to and i apologized… it was kind of a pause maybe because it’s awkward but he does say sure and he writes his number down

But I don’t want to reach out because I don’t know if he really wanted to or felt obligated

Long story short: I work at a call centre booking appointments for a good year now, and my manager is /has always been friendly with me. She even gave me cash to go buy coffee for her from downstairs our building….

my first week back to work I did ok and got a good amount of appointments, and my second week only 1 appointment and this week none so far… I’m always trying my very best to get leads.

Last week there was a bitch in the office who made a racist remark aimed towards me…. also there’s a loud obnoxious dude there who swears and says inappropriate things out loud and then people hang up the phone on me. My manager addressed the issue and claims that the girl apologized for her words and didn’t mean to offend me. She also said that upper management doesn’t wanna hear about it anymore either and that I have the option to switch my shifts…

The last few days my manager is avoiding one on one conversations with me and even lied about leaving the office when I wanted to go back to talk to her…

does my manager appear to be avoiding me? Or am I mistaken?