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What’s the point of trying to lose weight when thick is in or people are trying to gain weight nowadays?

All of my life, I’ve been a bigger girl. I was a thick child, a chubby/fat teenager and I’m a chubby curvy woman. I lost weight before but I gained the weight back. Some of my relatives didn’t like that I was losing...
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How do I approach this situation?

I married my husband last year and things have been great. My eight-year-old daughter is the light of my life and is overall a good kid. Recently, she expressed interest in joining the Space Force when she gets older...
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Why would my own father say if my mother was as big as I am, he would not even thing twice of pursuing me?

I’ve been overweight since I was 16. I was thin until age 16. And I just got lazy and tired of being thin. I’m currently 292lbs and 5’10”. I haven’t had a date in several years. Last time I dated was when I was 22. He...
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Guys, Do you think what my dad said was very harsh about my weight?

I always complain about guys not giving me the time of day or I don’t get hit on much anymore accept my creeps or fat men. I am 5’10” 264lbs, curvy and chubby. Nobody would believe I weight much. I know I need to lose...
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Is my life over if I'm an ugly girl?

I'm quite ugly, my classmates told me this sometimes and I can see myself in the mirror. I look very manly (huge jaw) and my eyes are super uneven. And I have soo much acne. My body is also super ugly, I don't have a flat...
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Was my friend right for insulting my friend and I for being thin? Why we insulted her body?

One time we’re going to a pool party and we all discussed about our bathing suits. Let’s call my friends S and L. So after we hung up and left her a message, L and I were talking about S’s size and if she would look good...
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Why do guys always reject me for slimmer or more fit women?

I’ve been a big girl all my life, never been at a healthy weight or anything like that. My parents said I’m just big bones and not everyone can be thin and just embrace who I am. I was 5’10 and 267lbs. There parents of...
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Why do I a chubby fat tall woman attractive less attractive, fat men no offense? Can I still flirt with other guys?

I mean I’ve always crushed or chases guys that were that my friends claim, “Out of my league”. The gorgeous or good looking girls get the cute or good looking guys. I know there’s some that get average looking guys. I...
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Am I going to be chubby and a fat pig for the rest of my life?

No matter what I do or how much weight I lose, I can't LOSE THAT GODDAMN BELLY FAT OR THIGH FAT!!! It’s so frustrating!!! Arreeggghhhh!!! I went from 278 to 230lbs. I mean I did lose inches but I think my legs won’t...
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Does weight loss really open doors for dating?

I’ve always been a big girl. Never petite, never slender, FAT. Most of my family days I’m not fat I’m just thicker. I’m Tall at 5’9”, plus size and currently 222lbs. I don’t look it but I do need to lose weight. I’ve had...
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Why don’t guys ever have a crush on me that much?

I don’t understand, I have a kind heart, beautiful inside and out (even though I’m fat), helpful, funny and a crazy goofball, but I haven’t had a boyfriend since high school. I know I’m not the ideal size of a girl....
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Should I just give up on men? Why do guys pretend to like or want to go out with me?

My best friend (let’s can her Frannie) and guy friend (let’s call him Eddy) told me they saw my crush (let’s call him Devin) out with another girl and told me he has a girlfriend. I told them to just stop and they did...
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Do I have it really bad?

I turned 34 years old on February 9 and to this day, I never had a girlfriend. I've been rejected many times by girls making me really question my looks. I'm also very shy and don't know how to communicate with girls. I...
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Why did my boyfriend flip out when I lost weight?

Okay so I’m not fat or skinny but I am a little chunky. I was slim before I hit puberty. I had a little belly which I hated and I wanted to get it and tone up. Before my boyfriend guys use to hit on me a lot and look at...
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5 Things Guys Should Never Do

Just want to share some crucial things in this Take that I think all guys should understand and take heed to. There is so much in life that men are not being taught about people and the world because people are so busy...
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Has anybody grew up at a time when slim/skinny was in?

I’ve been struggling with weight loss for years and nowadays the beauty standards are a little overweight or chubby “curvy”. I’ve been heavy and a big girl all my life. I’ve been told why would I lose weight and stop...
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Am I right to downplay the “attention” I’ve gotten from guys I find attractive?

30F and I don’t think I’ll ever shake my core belief that any decently presentable lady has no prob finding a man, a pretty girl well forget about it. I’m very reserved, I’ve always been but was *friendlier* in my early...
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30F and I don’t think I’ll ever shake my core belief that any decently presentable lady has no prob finding a man, a pretty girl well forget about it. I’m very reserved, I’ve always Show More
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My best friend is in love with an abusive, psychopath.

I've been friends with my bestie for 2 years. I love her pieces and she's one of the kindest, most amazing friends I've ever had. She has the sweetest heart I've ever came across. I'm just saying this because she's my...
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What is your opinion about girls that are very very very skinny, visually?

I saw a former model on YouTube and I interacted with a friend this month who look like they have lost a lot of weight recently and I think they are too skinny now. Obviously I said nothing since I do not have the...
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Why do some people criticize chubby people for trying to lose weight or get fit?

I’m 5’11 and 201lbs. I starting weight was 218lbs so I lost 17 pounds. My family doesn’t like when I’m trying to lose weight and even my friends told me I don’t need too lose weight and I carry it well. My best friend...
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