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Search Results: how to get guys to not hit on you
Girls, Any girls on here getting no hits on dating apps?
Getting matches but barely anyone messages from guys? I get way less than 10 years ago.
Anonymous
(25-29) A random guy showed up at my wedding and threatened my husband, then he showed up at our house?
Guys I don't know what to do, currently sitting in the hospital because this guy like broke into our house after showing up at our wedding? His friend or someone beat the shit out of my husband, apparently he owes him...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would it be better for me to wait until I'm 118 pounds to start dating?
I am on the heavy side right now, but making a lot of effort in changing that. So far down 14lbs in less than a week. Got a long way to go before I hit 118 though. Maybe by next summer I will be there. Should I wait...
Anonymous
(18-24) How can I attract men my own age when I look much younger than 38?
I don’t look my age and guys in their twenties hit on me a fair bit, rather than men my own age. I’m turning 38 this year and I want more older men to notice me. Not those who are much younger (more than 5 years younger)....
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Should I hook up with a coworker who wants to cheat on his girlfriend?
This guy at work i had a crush on- mentioned he had a girlfriend and then continued hitting on me and suggesting cheating w me on her! He and his girlfriend are in long distance relationship- they haven't met in over a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is lifelong commitment important in marriage?
There is a similar post Should marriage really be a lifelong commitment forever? where I tried to post an opinion, but when I hit Send It, I discovered that the poster had blocked me. This is an important question, so I...
Is this guy gaslighting me or just breadcrumbing after ghosting?
I met a guy in late 2024 on tinder and we went on two dates. Both were fun (1st was getting ice cream and going to a walking trail, 2nd was watching The Shining at his place and drinking frozen margaritas). We seemed to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why is my autistic guy friend acting weird after my big weight loss?
Or why would they sabotage them getting fit and in shape? My guy friend has been acting funny since I lost 80lbs and I got slimmer and in shape. He’s happy for me don’t get wrong but he said that I’m unapproachable...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do these college guys actually like us or is this just weird behavior?
So me and my friend (girls, both young adults) have basically zero experience with guys, and we’re both shy, so please help us because we feel like we’re losing the plot. Situation 1: My friend suddenly goes, “That guy...
Kelly_03
Xper 1 Age: 23 Does this pattern of violent group attacks in school count as bullying in the USA?
Anything I delt with physical aggression it was always in a 6+ -to- 1 style of ambush that was either armed or unarmed in nature and it would always be when I were highly distracted, sleeping, or an a vulnerable state. It...
WeezertheTeazer
Xper 3 Age: 37 Am I overreacting or should I leave my boyfriend over his anger issues?
I‘ve been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. He is a very sweet and kind person, but recently I have noticed that he gets angry very easily. He already told me this in the beginning, but I never saw it for myself...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does this guy mean when he tells my good friend "Wow, you've got your very own little cheerleader, here, don't you?"?
I was patching up my relationship with a guy, who I'd stepped away from bc he was emotionally immature and playing games. He tried to work his way back into my life, promising he'd be serious, etc. I gave him the benefit...
Magic: The Gathering, Card Tournament Question: Was this "Bad Manners"?
So I went to the local tournament this past Saturday, and played 4 casual games and 2 tournament games. I won all 4 Casual games and placed 2nd in each of the tournament games. ON the first Pod of 4 players, the guys...
SeekerOfTruth007
Xper 7 Age: 45 What's the most disgusting thing you've seen working in a restaurant?
I think there's tiers to this because my first job was working at a chain fast food place and they took the burger meat, threw it into a spaghetti strainer that was sitting in the sink you were supposed to wash your hands...
Do you think God sometimes avoids giving you things because you are not ready for it?
When I was in university, I only had one guy ask me out during my entire time there. But the month I graduated, I had 3 guys hit on me, and when I used to work in the outside world after finishing school, I would get guys...
How can you tell if a "player" is being sincere or just hitting up another "mark"?
This is a follow up to the question of whether or not guys play hard to get -- the hot-and-cold game that's basically designed to keep a gal on the hook. (I guess that bc I'm used to dealing with guys who are linear in...
Avoidant behavior or just a jerk?
So I was seeing a guy that I kinda work with but not close he’s in a different dept. I’m not proud of it but lesson learned. Anyway, we were seeing each other since June. Everything seemed to be great until July hit and...
Jenny265
Xper 2 Age: 41 Am I screwed when it comes to dating?
if I'm a shy girl with terribly low self esteem who struggles to talk to guys? no guys ever ask me out or hit on me. obviously going to bars isn't gonna work... so how the hell do i get a date? its really hard to hit on a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls' that receive a lot of male attention , is it hard for you to decide who you want to be with?
Like you get hit on by a bunch of guys' on a daily basis, Is it hard for you to decide who you want to be with?
Does anyone know how on earth, the Dominican Republic (Punta Cana) is the most visited place in the Caribbean?
I think this is the least interesting country I've ever visited. The only place worth seeing was Los Haitises. As far as Santo Domingo and Punta Cana go, other islands have FAR better beaches and historic cities. It's...
KostasKouvalis
Master Age: 27 