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Hey GAG , it’s been a while.

I have re downloaded this app to ask a confrontational topic about whether I should wear shorts in front of my boyfriend’s family. Me and my boyfriend are going back home to visit his parents for their wedding and we will be staying with them, it’s his mom dad and two younger brothers. On a regular basis, I wear gym shorts as a daily wear. I have created outfits and ordered from SHEIN to avoid my daily habits of wearing shorts, but I will wear shorts when I work out for sure. My problem is, when me and my boyfriend go to the gym, his brothers may want to tag along OR i might workout in their garage and use their tread mill. Half my workout consist of me wearing an oversized sweater dress to do cardio and the other half is taking it off and doing weights. Should I do my best to avoid being in gym shorts at all times? If i workout out in their garage I would of course need to come back inside the house and shower. I will be doing my workouts as early as I can. I just don’t know if it’s crossing boundaries or I’m just over thinking it. I’m just doing my best to not make my bfs mom feel some type of way. But I will say, she is young spirited and wears gym shark herself so I just have no idea if would be ok if I did too. And if they’re any girls who would like to give some insight on what they wear around their bfs families would be great thanks all!!

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up about a month ago because he felt I wasn’t emotionally there for him anymore but I had no idea he felt this way I have this problem where when I finally get comfortable with someone I over share and tell them the most random stuff that has nothing to do with either of us and so the last couple days of our relationship I had been having hard days and so I went to him just to vent to him and I got so caught in my mental stuff that I forgot to ask him how he was doing and about two weeks prior to this I told him that I didn’t want to see him for a while because I wanted to finish the school year with minimal distractions spend some time with some of my friends that I don’t see very often and spend time with my family and he took this personally because he is over thinker and so it made him feel like I didn’t love him anymore but I totally did and do but my mom was also mad because he never really talked to my parents we would always just go into my basement and watch tv because he has social anxiety and our relationship with my parents was kind of lie because I met him on snap and I’m not supposed to have snap so I didn’t want to get in trouble so we made up a story on how we met and so that made it harder for us to talk with them and especially with his social anxiety and the lies it was just lie after lie and it was hard to keep track of what we said so I never forced him to talk to my parents but my mother was not fond of that so anyways things weren’t really the same after I said that and so he said he wanted to break up because it was kind of turning into a one sided relationship and so I feel like it’s all my fault is it? Sorry for not using proper English I don't know how to do that

I had told my boyfriend that I invested in weight loss supplements and he seemed to be ok with it then as soon as I told his mom about it she was against it and since then my boyfriend is against me taking weight loss supplements and even said he would throw them out if he saw me taking them again cuz he thingks they’re going to make me “sick”….. im 20 pounds overweight and my bfs parents seem to make comments that me and my boyfriend should be going out for walks…..

so what’s the problem here? Why is my boyfriend so opposed to it?