My boyfriend and I are constantly fighting as new parents?

lately me and my boyfriend started having arguments just about everyday if not every other day. most arguments consist of me being bossy, me always having an attitude, so…basically just me.
I’m actually burnt out and so tired of being told im the problem every time i speak up for myself or child… im a sahm and just want appreciation, i feel like i lost myself in the mist of the SAHM “duties.”
The other day my boyfriend told me im not exciting or fun to be around.
I feel like all the “fun/exciting” part of me got sucked out, especially with the arguments everyday, that i don’t even want to pretend like i enjoy being around him.
Is it because our baby is still small? Meaning they’re just going through growth spurs and are wanting a little more attention than usual.(4 months)
I’m constantly thinking about how independent I was before this life..

My boyfriend and I are constantly fighting as new parents?
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