Search Results: abusive

Are you glad you werent aborted as a victim in the silent holocaust?

I had a rough childhood and was abandoned by my abusive parents and relatives but I'm still glad to be alive

Anonymous

(18-24)

Can I ever actually find a real girlfriend?

I was single until I was 29 and the girl who I finally found just was In the relationship for the resources she trashed me to her friends and physically and verbally abused me. What suddenly cause the end of the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Is the ''What did you just say'' reconfirmation meant to place fear, submission?

That's always done in these situations: - An abusive relationship, as in ''oh how dare you defy me, say it to my face'' and then if you say it, it's followed by a slap, punch or a beating. - One of those old-fashioned...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you have to be abusive or like chaos and drama to sustain a relationship?

I ask because even though my girlfriend was physically and verbally abusive I would never do anything bad no matter what was said or her physically hitting me I had the self control to not do anything because my morals...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If you have been bullied and made fun of your whole life is an abusive relationship the best you can get?

Like I have always been made fun of for various reasons in my life being autistic, my physical appearance. It seems that being in an abusive relationship is keeping with the theme of me being lesser

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it normal to be too scared to date again after an abusive relationship?

This was my very first relationship at 29 with the physical and verbal abuse and being made to seem less. Like prior to her a girl told me a few years prior she wouldn’t date me if I was the last guy on earth.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do women fell for toxic men?

Uhmm one of my friends has a thing for toxic man who like smokes, flirts, says abusive words, and basically does nothing for financial support. Why isn’t she seeing this red flag. She's like 22.

Anonymous

(18-24)

Religion & Spirituality

What are some experiences that made you believe/have more faith in the fact that Jesus is real?

I’ve been a believer but the older I get and the more things occur that I know goes beyond any humans natural doing I believe more. For example, my sons father is pretty much a dead beat. He was abusive to me when I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are good or nice men perceived as weaker men and therefore more susceptible to abusive relationships?

Sometimes I think what people praise me for is the same thing that opens the door for me to fall into bad situations like I just came from. I’m a guy who treats women with respect and I also carry myself respectfully. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I give up on love? Why people and family act like it’s weird I don’t have a boyfriend? Im 19?

Before I moved away, my mom's behavior became increasingly difficult to handle. She was verbally abusive and obsessed with my virginity. She often accused me of things I didn't do and enjoyed making up stories to start...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Would Ruby Franke have retaliated if her husband Kevin reported what she did to the police?

Ruby Franke was the woman who ran the now obsolete YouTube channel (meaning it no longer exists) 8 passengers. And the reason it was called 8 passengers is because it was her and her husband Kevin plus their 6 children....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can wanting a relationship simply ruin you?

So being a person who went 29 years without a relationship I felt as if I was missing out but most of you have seen my previous posts about the abusive relationship I was in with this girl where she was physically hitting...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I hate my mother for absolutely no reason?

I show my mom this cruelty and she doesn’t deserve it. My mom is good. She goes above and beyond all the time, even when I don’t need. she always stands by me, defends me from harm. My mom is absolutely amazing. The...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

What do you do when you lost your only dating opportunity?

So my first girlfriend came when I was 29 and she was also extremely abusive both physically and verbally and that’s the best I could get apparently and that ended how do I come to terms that another opportunity isn’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My wife is getting jealous about my friends that are girls. Is she being controlling and insecure?

I've always just gotten along better with girls than I have with guys. For whatever reasons. My wife and I have been together for a decade, but recently married and I think she thought I would stop having female friends...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

I realized that Love is really blind… F/24 M/26. can I vent?

I was with my ex for a year and some changes occurred during that time. He was homeless, had no job, and told me a sad story. We had deep conversations about how he is trying to find a job (he never did ), and I, being so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should abusive men be prevented from having contact with women?

I recently had a female friend get badly abused by a male intimate partner, should this be a law or would it be impractical?

Notherndude84

Xper 6 Age: 42

How to succeed in my life despite the circumstances clearly against me?

I was abused by my brother. He hit my head, kicked me down there, tried to damage my eye and pushed me on the ground. My parents are very biased towards him. I have a part-time job while my brother is training to become a...

Anonymous

(25-29)