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I moved far away from where I grew up and sometimes I miss it. I wonder if a good way to both relive my memories, and allow a mate to get to know me more deeply is to take my girlfriend on such a trip once I have one. I'd love to relive my young memories together with someone I loved. I wonder if such a thing is too much for a couple to do before marriage. Would this be too much to do before marriage?

If she also said she’s been thinking about it and she realised she’s not getting what she needs out of a relationship. Never told each other “I love you” after a year together. And also said you can’t change someone and also said she’s felt more like friends recently. And she wants to stay friends but doesn’t see a future together as romantic partners.

I have a genetic condition which shortens my lifespan. Males with my condition burn in the 90s are expected to live 37-45 years. While currently, my health is actually 10% above normal, the clock is ticking as I'm already 26. I feel like it's selfish for me to want a wife and kids when I know I won't be around for the foreseeable future, even if I found someone now. I'd be proceeding, knowing she and the child won't have me around for long, which I consider selfish of me. But I can't help but wonder if maybe a woman can fully understand and accept this. I currently doubt it, since we always think things will be okay, even when they really aren't. Is my desire for love misplaced selfishness?