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I recently entered the talking phase with t 29 and he’s very much his way or the highway type of man and very rarely is open to other opinions I myself am 23 and if I had to be put into a category I would say I’m head strong and similar to the my way or the highway type of thinking so we’ve been butting heads a lot we said are hard limits and what we both want out of this relationship one of the tougher conversations was we both can hold a conversation with just about anybody which is fine just the boundaries were crossed it was stated that we do not entertain people the way we do with each other I was honest and told him I didn’t and he said the same thing yet today I heard a woman say “you were saying tell me you love me on the phone” which for a lot of reasons made me upset I’m not a very over emotional person but my feelings were hurt and he chose to ignore that and call me out about the way I talk to people instead of asking why I was having that reaction I was overthinking so I went out for fresh air and he was ignoring me and my calls I again kept overthinking and felt like how I felt in my old relationship that I was overly emotional and I couldn’t help it cause I was a woman are the type of things said to me and I feel like this situation is pulling me back into the shell I was once in I know t didn’t say those words to me but not being heard or listened to is just putting me in a dark headspace like a doll no thoughts no emotions no nothing yes sir no sir is where my mind is going and I blame myself I blame myself for being so quick to fall back and back burner my feelings like they don’t matter and questioning myself for being emotional im sorry if this sounds like a bunch of nonsense I can’t get the right words of how I’m feeling besides low and unwanted Sorry again for this long post

I have been on dating sites before, and each time the vibe is good, we get into to asking questions about each other, messaging back quickly and everything is good. But as soon as I disclose that I’m a virgin and have never been in a relationship the vibe gets thrown off and they start messaging back slower or not messaging back at all. And before anyone says “why do you tell them you’re a virgin” or “why are you telling them you’ve never been in a relationship, I tell them because they ask and I’m not ashamed of either one. But I am starting to realize its becoming a problem because I haven’t been able to get into a relationship, I’m almost 22 and have never been in a relationship before, I can’t relate to people around me that are and it’s quite exhausting not to mention embarrassing.

My question is: Are men who are experienced in dating and sexually, scared to be with a women that has never been in a relationship and still is a virgin?