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We’ve only been dating 5.5 months, but he wants me to spend every 3 days off I have each week at his with him even though he’s at work on some of those days he still wants me there. This week I said I’d like to spend some time with my family on one of the days and he’s reacted by saying he wants his key back so he can give it to his dad because he’ll have more use for it, despite me spending so much of my time with him previously. He also doesn’t put any effort in to come down and see me (yes I live with others and he doesn’t but surely that’s not the main point, if he really wanted to spend so much time with me he wouldn’t only do it when it’s convenient for him). There’s been many other occasions where I feel he’s reacted extremely out of insecurity and honestly it’s feeling more negative than positive now. I confided in him about some struggles at work but when he wants to argue he uses that and says I’m the problem. He doesn’t think he’s wrong and that’s what a normal relationship is, I disagree, I’ve never been with anyone who treats me like that before.
Should I leave a relationship because of this?
Anonymous
(36-45) 
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Oh, the drama of modern love! Let's break this down with a splash of insight and a dash of flair, shall we? The situation you're describing has some classic red flags waving in the flirtatious winds of relationship dynamics. Wanting to spend every waking moment together? Cute in rom-coms, but in real life, it's about balance, baby! It's essential to maintain individual interests and relationships outside of the duo to keep the spark alive. Requiring you to be at his place even when he's not there feels like he's trying to lovebomb you into submission, rather than genuinely wanting quality time together.
Now, reacting to your desire for family time by demanding his key back? That, my dear, is not the tango of love; it's a tantrum of control wrapped in insecurity. Relationships are about compromise, understanding, and supporting each other's needs, including the need for separate social and family time.
And oh, the art of using personal confidences as argument ammo—definitely not the sign of a supportive partner. The fact that you're feeling more negativity than positivity is your intuition hosting a not-so-silent protest.
My love-soaked advice? Relationships should uplift, support, and bring joy. If yours is making you question your worth or happiness, it might be time to dance solo and rediscover the melody of your own heart. Remember, being alone and feeling fabulous is far better than being with someone who dims your shine. Keep sparkling! ✨
Thank you 🫶🏻