Search Results: get a guy to stop and talk to me

Guys, He says I betrayed him, why does he feel this way?

This is a long one, please bare with me. My boyfriend came to my place to talk. He entered my security complex by tailgating and the guard on duty stopped him, it turned into a heated argument where my boyfriend started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I stop talking to him?

My last relationship was very abusive and the police had to get involved, I ended up having to leave the area to be safe. It’s been a good few years now and I’ve started trying to put myself out there. I’ve been speaking...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He has sexual thoughts whenever I talk?

I was teaching a coworker of mine because he was going to be moving into my department. This guy is very funny and always makes jokes, sexual or not. But I will admit, sometimes his jokes will make me feel uncomfortable...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Please help? Will she leave him again? What do I do?

I am a girl, and my bff is a guy. I know my bff has/had a crush on me. He never acted on it because the timing was never right, I had a boyfriend here and there. He's recently started chatting with a girl. They used to...

serialbowl1995

Xper 1 Age: 50

How do I stop falling for girls just because they show me attention?

Like I’ve noticed a lot of my crushes start because they waved at me or were being nice to me. I’ve noticed that just because they showed attention doesn’t mean 1. They’re attracted to me and 2. That they even want to be...

gopackers2002

Xper 4 Age: 23

Does this sound rude or like a red flag?

I’ve been talking to a guy for the past week. The conversation has been really good, the best conversation I’ve had from a dating app in a long time. The conversation flows and it’s easy to talk to him. We have arranged a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy advice? What to do? why does he act the way he does?

Used to talk to a guy. I now in relationship with his friend. This guy has always been strange. He got into a relationship which now has finished. During that he used to message random selfies no words. Sometimes being...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why did he text me after a week of no contact?

hi guys! so my ex and I were together for four years. To give a simple rundown of the relationship. It was a lot of push and Pull dynamic anytime things got a little overwhelming for him. He would want to break up and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Holidays

What to do with a situationship with coworker, who’s got his rebound pregnant and feelings for both me and her are still involved?

Hi there, I really need your advice and help in this one, because I’m in dark place right now and feeling like falling apart. This story may sound like a movie script or some mixed misunderstandings and unfortunate...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I try to start a conversation with my situationship that I feel like my emotional needs aren't being met?

A guy I've known for 5 years flirted with me and I ended up flirting back. We've been a part of the same friend group, but were never close (my friend group is large). We decided to see where things would lead....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I try to get in contact with this guy or just forget about him?

Last year I moved to a new city and starting hanging out with an acquaintance and her friends group. In this group there was the cutest boy and there was quite a spark, from his behavior I would have guessed it was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Last year I moved to a new city and starting hanging out with an acquaintance and her friends group. In this group there was the cutest boy and there was quite a spark, from his

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As a guy, are these signs of affection? Could this mean feelings still?

So my ex and I broke up 2 years ago and it was more so him ending the relationship because it was becoming unhealthy but we both for some reason didn’t talk about it. Anyway after we broke up he seemed to struggle with...

Lissyyluu33

Xper 3 Age: 33

Was it all in my head or did he actually like me?

There was a young lady who went to my gym. He would always look at me. Get jealous when other guys would talk to me. He would always orbit around me. But when I finally reached out to him he pretended not to know me and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can someone help me understand this guys behavior?

so, there’s a guy and i recently got his number like 3 weeks ago.. we would text everyday but it would be a brief “hey, how you doing?” “how’s your day been?” “what you up to?”. a few conversations have been getting to...

chickkkienugggies

Xper 3 Age: 23

Girl's Behavior

Would you let her (long distance friend/potential relationship) go after this?

Me (30) girl long distance tiktok dancer (25) meet in late September 2023 on tiktok live. She seemed interested in me initially. We messaged each other around late October she confessed she liked me. Reason: I wasn't like...

Cocochoh

Xper 5 Age: 36

He chose another girl over me but came back?

So I was talking to this guy, and we got along really well. We both knew each other were talking to other people which was fine, but then he started asking me for advice on one of the other girls he was talking to. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl I liked stopped talking to me because she thought I wanted to be with her ex?

So for a little context, we were talking for a while up until the last date (3rd date) where she told me how the guy she’s living with (who was her ex) confessed that he still had feelings for her. After that, things just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What kind of relationship dynamic is this?

I’d love all ears to put in what they can make of this. A woman I used to have a fling with a few years back (never did anything-not even a kiss) recently added me on IG. Now, this relationship is confusing because we...

Anonymous

(25-29)