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29F and I feel like if I was truly attractive, I would get approached by guys in person but I never do. I get told that guys look at me but they never actually do anything about it, I’m told I’m attractive and I’m learning to like myself more but I can’t help but feel like if I really was hot shit I would always be in a relationship or actively approached by guys. But I’m not, only on the apps 🥴

I find it baffling if they’re a woman & still stay single, as it’s known women have it easier. The most I do being a 29F is go on dating apps on and off, I’ve been single for several years. It seems like being in a relationship with a man is not possible for me, I get the attention you’d expect as a woman on the app but it doesn’t go anywhere for a multitude of reasons. Which is why I have to ask myself if I’m actually attractive or if everyone in my life is lying to me. In person, I have yet to be approached by a guy I’d actually want to date. I’m not the friendliest, if supermodels can find love then I feel it’s an excuse when people tell me I’m “intimidating”