Is it ever understandable to hate the opposite gender?

[chris_987]

I was listening to a story of a self -proclaimed misogynist, He's now dead by the way. But he was telling a story about how he went to jail for statutory rape at 16. The girl was 15 and it was consensual. But word got out that she was a hoe and guys would approach her saying I know what you did and if you don't do the same thing to me I'm telling.

So after getting blackmailed into sex a bunch of times she went to her father and told her she got raped, Oh yeah and a couple weeks ago I also got raped.

So obviously the authorities found all the people she had sex with and tried them, some of them got life in prison. Some of them got a couple months. But I was just thinking that these guys are kids and a lot of them lost their minds at the very thought I'll go on to jail. Much less actually going to prison. And the guy was saying that's one of the reasons why he doesn't like women is because they have so much power to destroy a man.

I'm wondering if there is any equivalent story as to why women would hate men.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Yes, it's understandable, given the emotional distress under certain circumstances. However, it's always irrational, and thus, it ultimately leads to a failure in life. In the case You described, it would be perfectly rational for the man in question to avoid any interactions with women he does not know well enough. The Western societies these days are basically live minefields for men and it's perfectly logical to avoid getting blown up. However, hatred towards women would actually make it harder. Hatred is an emotion. Every time He'd see a woman, He'd wish for her to get hurt or even die. Sooner or later, He'd snap, and that's when His life would end. Hunted down like a rabid animal, He'd either get shot dead or thrown into a prison where He'd wish He was dead instead. It is true that women have overwhelming power to ruin men's lives these days. Some women are not insane, though, and they understand into what kind of hell making use of said power is going to lead them.

To give my point a more personal touch... I got in trouble at school once for glancing at my female classmate's face. Luckily, it happened before I reached the age when I could be realistically sued (though I later learned that such an option was actually put on the table by the aforementioned female classmate). I ended up getting off the hook pretty easily, as my (female) homeroom teacher was quick to understand that I pose no real threat at all and what I have done was due to my awkwardness and insecurity around girls, at worst. However... I've learned my lesson and I sure did avoid interacting with my female classmates for some time, going as far as to avoid perceiving them at all. However, I couldn't help but notice that at least one of these female classmates of mine was anything but hostile towards me, even going out of Her way to invite me to a school year-end party that same school year - the first party of that kind I have ever attended. I decided to take the risk of opening up to Her during the holidays (though I did take the precaution of not interacting with Her directly, using a mobile communicator app instead). I guess I might have been thinking something along the lines of: "I'm going to make her show her true colors and I'm going to find a valid reason not to interact with her anymore". What followed was anything but what I might have expected at the time. She was absolutely appalled as I shared some of my life experience with Her. Then, She offered to help me blend in with our classmates and improve (or, basically, start up) my social life. What it led to was me finding a few closer friends in my class, leading to an unprecedented occurence in my life when I was actually happy to perceive my classmates' existence (with a certain female classmate remaining an exception to this phenomenon for quite some time). So... How about today? Well... I'm still wary not to look at random women, not even at their faces. If a woman was to sit across the table from me or on the opposite seat in public transport, I'd immediately shift my gaze away. If she were to sit next to me, I'd also take additional care not to allow for our legs or shoulders to touch. However, if I absolutely have to interact with a given woman or if I know a certain woman well enough to gain sufficient trust in her, I'm perfectly capable of upholding mostly-not-awkward interactions, with no murderous intent brewing inside me. Now, while most people not in the know of what horrific risk interactions with women bring about would still consider me insane, I feel I've reached a state when I'm capable of leading a somewhat normal life, considering how utterly hostile the Western societies are towards men these days, while not leaving my soft underbelly exposed to any woman (or rather to any feminist) who would get a splendid idea of making my life more of a hell that it already is.

Thus, my point is: it's understandable to hate the opposite gender, but it's much more rational to substitute the hatred with level-headed avoidance.

[lightbulb27]

Good story with lot of lessons. It's devoid of responsibility... which is lacking in our society.

Yes legit reasons to hate others... but then again, that's putting the blame on them for what is ones own decisions isn't it? The girl in this case has more reason to hate men that literally blackmailed her into doing things she didn't want to do.

The father should hate men too that have no regards for the sanctity of his family.

The real answer is not in hate, but in love. Hate is a terrible energy... bitter. These men knew they were doing something wrong and they did it anyway, for their own twisted motives of selfishenss. She did not force herself on them, they made bad choices.

Never... and I repeat never trust a drunk woman. In general, don't trust women. Women are to be loved... if you find one you choose to love, then do so and leave the rest alone. It's really that simple. Note, some are difficult to love, so choose wisely.

Again the Bible is right..."the wages of sin... is death". In this case, many deaths.

[MemeSupreme]

yeah it's understandable to bc people's experiences can make them that way

doesn't mean it's right or you have to condone it if theyre being a dick bc of it but like it's okay to be like "i get where you're coming from" like I've met old black people who don't trust white people. im not gonna give them shit for it bc it makes sense lol

[AmyHew1tt]

There's never a reason to hate a gender at large. You can hate individual people, but hating the gender based on the actions of some is petty and often self-indulgent. We like feeling self-righteous, because it help us ignore our own problems and where we could grow ourself.

[chris_987]

So a girl getting raped isn't probable cause for her to be over men?

[Tim2nice]

I can’t believe I’m agreeing with Amy Hewitt

[AmyHew1tt]

Plenty of women have been raped and don't hate every single man on the planet or lump them into a group.

[chris_987]

Plenty? What percentage of women do think get raped?

Also why do people hate the cops?

[AmyHew1tt]

Same reason some men hate women and some women hate men. They've tainted all of them by association. That doesn't make it real or right. But we're all entitled to our opinions. I'm not here to change yours.

[ManOnFire]

She was a minor who had consensual sex with this guy who was older. How much older, you didn't say, but he must've been older nonetheless. Sorry to say I don't feel anything for her.

"And the guy was saying that's one of the reasons why he doesn't like women is because they have so much power to destroy a man."
- but you have to ask this question: why do women have so much power to destroy a man? Because men let them have it. Men run the systems that sent those guys to jail for life, yet did nothing to her for being a minor who had consensual sex with an adult. Women only have power over men when men allow them to, and sadly male leadership in many forms across the board - government, law, police, CEOs, etc. - is full of weak men who do not understand this, they are just proud and happy that they are at the top with the rest of their frat boy club, and allow women to do what they want because they fear them.

As for answering your initial question, I think there are certain times or certain instances where it is understandable to hate the opposite sex, yes. And I think everyone will here and there at some point. It neither pleases or bothers me. It's just life.

[SolitarySolace]

It’s completely understandable to hate the opposite gender due to this kind of thing. It’s also completely understandable to believe that women have all the power. The government makes it far too easy for both good and bad women to put A man or boy in jail/prison regardless of whether said man or boy is innocent or not. That hatred comes from fear of being wrongfully treated, wrongfully accused, etc And if a man is afraid of a woman, people ridicule, laugh at, mock, hurt those men causing said men to become misogynists. He has no way to defend himself. No way to free himself from this process other than to swear off the opposite sex entirely. Even doing that, people consider an act of misogyny. Even doing that, you're told you're gay even though you're not. Even though you know your own truth it hurts. It hurts because there's nothing you can do. The idea of just accepting all of it with a smile on your face and treating those who you can't deem an oppressor should drive any man crazy to the point of either suicide or internet hate for the female gender.

[handsomelad70]

I can't picture myself hating women, but some people hate the other sex.

[SolitarySolace]

Can you picture yourself fearing what women these days are capable of?

[Dongie]

Anger is a natural reaction to being hurt. But it can become out of control. That's the rational of placing all women in a box because of the actions of one or 99 out of 100. Look for that one who is not affected with the same reaction toward men as you have developed toward women. I know as I've been there myself. Its self torture. Just let life's lessons strengthen your resolve and sharpen your judgment.

[Billlewis]

I think in the current era, gender wars are, to some extent, inevitable, which is why I strongly recommend that guys in general should always be mindful of how their actions, behavior and conduct will affect their female counterparts. I know this is typically an unpopular opinion, but think about this -- if the women with whom you interact with each day were guests in your home, or customers at the company for which you work, would you be more conscious of their will being, less conscious or as conscious? 'When uncertain, open the curtain' ;)

[shoeboxcerealcard]

No, it's never understandable. It's a mental infection. Most people on this site are like that. Look at the questions. They target all women or all men. Logically they know the difference but that's not how the subconscious works. It takes exactly what you give it. So if you say "men" then it will take it as all men. Prejudices are built that way. It's a subconscious thing.

[Hammertimeguy]

Follow Lazerbeans advice she is smart.

[IconicPenguin]

No. It's understandable to be wary, to be suspicious at first. After all if you got hurt once you can get hurt again. But to look at everyone of the opposite gender as if they have already hurt you? That's just stupid. Most of them don't even know who you are, and if their actions or beliefs have hurt you in a general collective type of way, they likely don't even realize it.

[SolitarySolace]

They don’t have to know you, dumbass. If you’re a man women immediately think rapist, abusive, oppressor, etc. meanwhile men can’t criticize women without being attacked.

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace just because some people do it doesn't make it understandable. Some men see a woman and immediately think thief, abuser, stochastic terrorist etc., and yes they are often criticized for thinking this way. Just like women are often criticized for thinking the way you said about men. Rightly so because it does not make sense to treat an entire group of people as if they are all collectively guilty for the crimes of individual members of the group. All reasonable people understand this.

[SolitarySolace]

Do you honestly believe the United States of America has reasonable people? A lot of them vote democrat.

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace and a lot of them vote republican. It's a sad world when both options are dog vomit. But now I'm not sure what your problem is—are you confused as to why unreasonable people do unreasonable things? That seems self-explanatory to me.

[SolitarySolace]

My point is women vote for their own selfish self interests while men vote for the safety of the country itself. It explains why cities like new York are crime ridden. Explains why the border is wide open and illegal murderers are swooping in and killing people because women want benefits like roe v wade back for their own selfish reasons

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace you believe that ALL women vote ONLY for selfish reasons, and NO men vote for ANY selfish reasons?

[SolitarySolace]

Men tend to vote with logic while women tend to vote with emotion. If women couldn’t vote, republicans would have the majority. If only women voted the democrats would have the majority. I wonder why that is

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace more women vote Democrat significantly because more black people vote Democrat, and more black voters are women. Most people are aware of that. But where are you getting the idea that women vote emotionally and men vote logically? Do you believe all women vote emotionally, or all people who vote Democrat vote emotionally, or something else?

[SolitarySolace]

More young men are becoming conservative while women are more left leaning - www.msn.com/.../ar-BB1jMqtO?ocid=sapphireappshare

That can’t possibly be because men vote with logic (conservative) and women emotion (leftists)

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace that's what I'm asking you, and I'll take that as your answer. In that case, do you hate all women because you believe that most of them are emotional and illogical?

[IconicPenguin]

Actually let me rephrase that: do you think it's reasonable to hate every member of a group because most of its members are emotional and illogical?

[SolitarySolace]

I hate women because they took the help given to them by men in power and abused it and are now using it to hurt both good and bad men. And men aren’t allowed to be victims of this. Men aren’t allowed to call this out. Men aren’t allowed to fear women because if we do we’re laughed at and ridiculed. Men are cowards for not putting bad women in their place. Just because women were oppressed in the past doesn’t mean they have a right to oppress men today.

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace so you believe all women do that stuff? Or you believe it's reasonable to hate all women because most do that stuff, even the ones who don't do any of that stuff you hate them?

[SolitarySolace]

I hate that they’re capable of doing that stuff. I don’t care whether they do or not it’s the fact it’s available to them to begin with. Both good and bad women utilize it. There are men who go off on these women for it and there are men who feel the need to white knight and defend these women too. It needs to stop.

[SolitarySolace]

And if it doesn’t stop and continues I feel I am 200% justified to hate all women

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace so there are good women, but because all women are capable of doing bad things you think you would be justified in hating all women? Is that what you really believe?

[SolitarySolace]

Absolutely

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace okay. I find that unreasonable—even if your assumptions about women were true. The same way I find women who hate all men to be unreasonable—even if their assumption that some men are good but all are capable of doing bad things was true.

[SolitarySolace]

Taking the middle ground is why men hating women and women hating men will continue. You’re just perpetuating an already bad thing

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace what middle ground am I taking? I just said I find it unreasonable to hate a whole gender just because individuals of that gender did/can do bad things. That's what I said from the start.

[SolitarySolace]

“@SolitarySolace okay. I find that unreasonable—even if your assumptions about women were true. THE SAME WAY I FIND WOMEN WHO HATE ALL MEN TO BE UNREASONABLE —even if their assumption that some men are good but all are capable of doing bad things was true.”

You’re playing both sides. Saying you agree with both sides. Everyone agrees with the woman saying you agree with them too is just giving them more and the men less

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace no. Im saying I don't agree with ANYONE who thinks that way. I thought that was pretty clear. You asked is it ever understandable to hate the opposite gender? And I said no, it's not. It doesn't matter which gender.

[SolitarySolace]

Do you believe we live in a patriarchy that is oppressing women?

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace I don't even know if "we" live in the same country. You asked your question and I answered it. Is that not good enough for you?

[SolitarySolace]

Well I don’t trust women, so no.

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace then next time mark your question so only men can answer it. 🙄

[SolitarySolace]

I like giving women the chance to argue with other women on my polls

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace I don't see any women arguing with each other here. I do see that I made a wrong assumption at the beginning of our argument though; this isn't even your question. You came to a different guy's question to argue with people's answerers lol.

[SolitarySolace]

I sure did 😁 thanks for the experience

[IconicPenguin]

@SolitarySolace you're welcome. Too bad neither of us learned anything.

[236color]

Yes there are equivalent stories from women. Hate is generally a negative emotion that hurts everyone. Applied to large groups, it's called prejudice. It happens, but it's not right, but it happens and we have to guard against it. Remember it is not a crime if a woman you want, doesn't want you. If you find several women like this, it doesn't. mean it's true of all women. That said having an angry, resentful attitude will make it more likely you will be rejected.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm not going to hate a whole gender for the acts of an individual any more than I'm going to hate a whole race for the acts of one. Eventually you have to hate everyone if you live life that way.

[chris_987]

You don't have to but you can at least understand it

[BoopBoopBeep]

No i can't understand hating an entire group of people, most of whom I'll never meet or interact with. That's the height of irrationality.

[chris_987]

It's really not, If you met one Lion That was well trained and you could pet and treat it like a cat. Would you then go out into the wild and assume all lions act like that?

No, you wouldn't. You would understand that it's in its nature to attack people. It's the same thing with the opposite gender. both have the ability to destroy each other life. So I'm able to understand why somebody could hate an entire gender.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You analogy is backwards.
You hate all women. You assume all lions are dangerous.
Then you go to the zoo and shoot the lion. THAT is more analogus to your position because you're saying it is okay to hate ALL women.

Under your flawed model, I would have to trust all women, which I do not do, rendering it irrelevant from the jump.

[chris_987]

Explain how shooting The Lion would apply to my analogy of A man or woman being. Mentally traumatized and that causing them to hate the opposite gender. Yes, please explain?

[BoopBoopBeep]

You brought up the analogy of meeting the well trained lion vs the one in the jungle. Why am I having to explain your analogy? Especially since I pointed out that it is fundamentally flawed.

If you met one well trained lion you wouldn't hate all the others.

You hate all women when clearly you haven't met any of them. Using your analogy that is saying that you hate all lions because one tried to eat you so you shoot the one you see at the zoo.

I'm not sure how much more clearly can I explain your analogy. With what part specifically do we have our breakdown in communication?

[BoopBoopBeep]

ALso I'd never be "mentally traumatized" because or something a woman does unless she locks me in a basement and tortures me daily.

[Joshydavid25]

🤔🤔... Nah, if one person did you wrong, I wouldn't say it's understandable.. Now, if you had that, and never had much of a positive experience with the opposite gender than yeah that's more understandable, but still not right.. Fighting that feeling of prejudice is the healthy way to go..

[Phoenix98]

It's understandable to hate certain individuals of the opposite gender but I don't think it's understandable to hate the entire gender itself as there are lots of innocent people who did nothing wrong and don't deserve the hate and that goes for both genders.

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't think so, but I can understand how so many people get to that point. And yes, there are a lot of women with those kinds of stories about men.

I think that some people are just targets of abuse from the opposite sex, and I think there's a weird tendency to ignore that fact. Ignoring the legitimate abuse someone is going through is a great way to breed resentment towards all members of the opposite sex.

[Anonymous]

Ummm yes. Women crying rape is one of the only things we have in our “power” to destroy a man. Men have MANY ways to destroy a woman. Men have more power in society in general. It’s seen in salary differentials, acceptance for job opportunities, physical strength, etc. Women rarely hold the cards.

[Opinion Owner]

That being said, a teenager being accused of rape is very sad. It’s one of my biggest fears as a mother of a teenage son. It can destroy a boy. I’ve seen it.

[SolitarySolace]

Do you think it is reasonable or unreasonable for men and boys to fear women and girls?

[chris_987]

Is the well of balance and things out? Just like how a girl doesn't have to do anything to get raped. It's the same way a man doesn't have to do anything to get a rape charge. And both of them they have to live with that for the rest of their lives.

[Opinion Owner]

@SolitarySolace I don’t think feelings people have are ever unreasonable. The reasons might need to be explored. I think being open and honest with the opposite sex has a huge power to it. Once people see you as a fellow human it certainly helps? Does that make sense?

[Opinion Owner]

I can agree with that. Both acts are life altering and can have massive consequences, if not physically (jail, pregnancy, etc) but more so mentally and emotionally.

[chris_987]

Yeah and people are failing to see the logic, of somebody being mentally scarred and that having an effect on how they view people. I had no idea people were this dumb.

[SolitarySolace]

Being open and honest with women gives them something to use against you either immediately or later. Just because people see you as a fellow human doesn't mean they're someone you should fear. Animals are more afraid of you than you are of them. Women claim to fear men and everyone says that's reasonable. But men fearing women? I believe it's absolutely reasonable. Doesn't have anything to do with being fellow humans so no it makes no sense

[Opinion Owner]

@SolitarySolace okay. Why not just see everyone as an individual then? Stop grouping an enter sex into one? You are too young to have such a biased feeling about women.

[SolitarySolace]

Why should I do that when women aren’t? Women say all men care about is sex and that they must all be rapists. Women say all men are oppressors and are somehow benefiting from a patriarchy. Why do they get to generalize all men and I as a man have to see them as individuals?

[Opinion Owner]

@SolitarySolace 🤷🏼‍♀️I don’t let people and their dumb statements get to me. The internet warriors thrive on that stuff. Some things are facts others are opinions. Not all women think that about men.

[SolitarySolace]

Majority of women are feminists and believe a patriarchy is oppressing them

[Opinion Owner]

@SolitarySolace I’m a woman. I do not think that. But I also don’t care. Haha

[SolitarySolace]

Good for you you’re one of the few.

[Tim2nice]

Crying rape can totally ruin someone’s life though and authorities are under immense pressure to bring about more convictions which still doesn’t change the fact that proving rape is almost impossible in majority of cases. And salary differentials is a myth.

[Opinion Owner]

@Tim2nice salary differentials are NOT a myth. Men statistically get a higher rate of pay for many jobs. (In the US).

[SolitarySolace]

So you're a liar. You claim you're not a feminist or believe in a patriarchy yet you believe in the gender pay gap? 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

@SolitarySolace Gender pay gap is a real thing. It’s a fact. Not an opinion.

[SolitarySolace]

Its been debunked so many times it's hilarious they're are still women who believe it.

[Opinion Owner]

@SolitarySolace Okay I guess I’m just an uneducated stupid woman. Its fine. I’ll stay in line.

[SolitarySolace]

Good. Keep it that way

[Opinion Owner]

@SolitarySolace 🤣🤣

[Tim2nice]

Salary differentials don’t make economic sense. If women make the same output as men why would I wanna employ men?

[bobby_bush_eater]

The entire other gender... No. That's a terribly unfortunate situation that would not doubt cause resentment and a lack of trust for a long time, but hate all men? Her father who helped put an end to it was a man...

Most of the people that think this way about either gender haven't experienced something like this. They either are "educated" feminists who love the many medias or are angry red pill Bros who are chronically online.

[LazerBean]

No, someone has to be at least borderline retarded to hate an entire gender.

[chris_987]

All right, switch it. Let's say that you grew up during the time where they KKK was hanging black people. Is it okay for that black person to hate all white people?

[LazerBean]

You can switch it all you want, a person would still have to be retarded to hate an entire group based solely on skin color or body parts.

[SolitarySolace]

So you’re calling yourself retarded? 🤣

[LazerBean]

No, I'm calling you a retard.

[SolitarySolace]

You clearly hate men or you wouldn’t be saying shit like this. So if I’m a retard for hating women you’re just as much of a retard for hating men

[LazerBean]

You think I clearly hate men because I say things like "hating the opposite gender is retarded"?

Lmao

[LazerBean]

@SolitarySolace blocked me like the pussy he is. Pathetic

[Hammertimeguy]

Smart girl!

[Hammertimeguy]

@SolitarySolace Not cool bro.

Are you seriously calling a woman retarded?
Never called a woman names.

[LazerBean]

Thank you 😊

[SweetDripp]

He shouldn’t hate women for how the legal system works. I can understand his point of view that it seems unfair based on his story, but our legal system and those who created the laws are largely men. Shouldn’t he hate them?

[SolitarySolace]

Men created these laws to help women but women abuse these laws and use them to hurt men. That's not the fault of the men who created these laws with the sole purpose of protecting women is the fault of the women for abusing these laws and turning them into something that is hurting men

[SweetDripp]

@SolitarySolace Be careful lumping all women into those who abuse those laws. Hating me for something someone else did is childish.

[SolitarySolace]

You're still capable of abusing those laws same as all women are. Regardless of whether you consider yourself to be a good or bad person. You end up mad or spiteful etc you're going to abuse those benefits and claim it was necessary

[SweetDripp]

@SolitarySolace That’s where you are wrong. You don’t know me at all, yet you claim you know I’ll abuse the law if I get mad. Assuming an entire gender is spiteful and revengeful because you have some examples of some who are is foolish. That’s like saying all men will murder their families if they get mad because one man did that at some point in time.

[SolitarySolace]

Alright, fine. Advocate to abolish all those benefits you women have tell the men in power you don't need them because you have men like your husband to protect you you don't need the government to give you laws to abuse

[LazerBean]

Don't bother arguing logic with him, he can't. He's the main, chronically whining woman hater here. He just blocked me because he couldn't handle how the facts I stated made him feel

[SolitarySolace]

Lazerbean is one of those bad women who want to keep those laws around to abuse and hurt men

[SweetDripp]

@SolitarySolace You are obviously beyond rational discussion on the topic and are simply fishing for like-minded people to affirm your beliefs that men are oppressed by women. I’m not playing that game with you.

[SolitarySolace]

Honestly didn't think you would, @SweetDripp I already know women are all the same

[SweetDripp]

@SolitarySolace A true mumpsimus.

[NathanDavis]

it's stupid and unhealthy

which is why they need professional care... not enabling justification

[normalice]

Sounds like a bunch of animals are trying to blame the victim in that case. "Blackmailed into sex" is rape. They raped a child and need to be in prison for it.

[Kaneki05]

No. It's understandable to distrust based on past experiences but to hate everyone as if tho they are the same is just delusional.

[chris_987]

But it's a macrocosm. If one man is capable of rape then it's understandable that all men capable of rape, in a woman's mind.

And same thing for this situation if one woman has the power to falsely accuse you then all women have the power to falsely accuse you.

[Kaneki05]

If one man is not capable of it then it's understandable that all men aren't. Just using your logic in reverse if you don't see how dumb this logic is then there is nothing I can say to convince you otherwise lol

[chris_987]

By virtue of being stronger than a woman and owning a penis you're capable of rape. What's so hard to understand about that?

Is a 900lbs bear that's trained to not kill humans. Still able to kill you?

[JacobJordan]

Your view is dangerously naive and it is in fact one that female rapists use to try and avoid prosecution "he is bigger he could have pushed me off" at no stage is it understandable to hate an entire anything for the actions of a tiny percentage. People are more than there physical characteristics take me for example I physically could snap a woman's neck in the blink of an eye or throw her into a wall from across the room but morally I am incapable of that because it goes against my entire being in fact when I hurt a woman physically even by accident I feel awful. But the idea that just because it can be done means all men should be treated as such is ridiculous. Most men are good people. Most women are good people. A minority of both cause all of the problems. But applying the shitty nature of one to everyone just keeps the hate alive and keeps the divide alive. Of the sum 160m ish women 1/5 are liable to falsely accuse so 32m that is a very small number when you look at how many women there are. Same for men. .4% of men are responsible for 100% of the rapes. Which accounts for 2.6m ish men. Men do not put all women into a generalized box when it comes to crime despite the fact those 2 crimes have a disparity of 5,000%.

[Kaneki05]

He thought on was on about physically. When I was on about mentally lol. Mentally I would never be capable to do such an act because it's against my morals. Therefore if I can't then no one can by such logic.

But yeah even psychically this logic don't work because then unless if disabled anyone is capable of raping and even then disabled people can depending, this is including women. Women can rape men, and other women it's not that hard.
Therefore by such idea everyone is just a rapist which is not true so yeah delusional.

Chris your logic here is very flawed.

[Kaneki05]

Physically*

[JacobJordan]

Exactly it is what I call a "blanket statement of validity" which here is the thing if one is to make such a statement it is fine PROVIDED one has the facts and evidence to back such a claim up. At no point in human history has any group of peoples just been entirely bad or entirely good or entirely wrong or entirely right.

[Anonymous]

Those boys had a predatory mindset at such a young age. WTF is wrong with our society? Also if they didn't even have evidence of her having sex with another guy, why was she worried? Maybe they had pictures or something. She should have went to the cops right away.

[chris_987]

So apparently 16-year-olds can be predatory against other 16-year-olds. That's why I don't really listen to girls when they talk, You guys just be saying anything.

[Opinion Owner]

They blackmailed her into having sex with them.

[chris_987]

You can't be a predator if you're the same age. Watch what you say

[Opinion Owner]

Wtf yes you can! You're a fucking idiot! It's like saying you can't be a murder if you kill someone the same age as you.

[chris_987]

Ok let's take this to the extreme, can a 5 year old be predatory to other 5 year olds?

[Opinion Owner]

You can't compare a five year old (a kindergarten) who barely is learning right from wrong. They are a vulnerable group and can easily be manipulated by predators. It could result in the little 5 year old doing the same thing that happen to him/her but they don't really understand right from wrong.
16 year olds know right from wrong. They clearing have the mentally to know you're not supposed to coerce/manipulate/blackmail someone into having sex with them. That's sick AF.

[chris_987]

I look at a 16 year old and a 5 year old as the same maturity level. So must be young

[Opinion Owner]

Wtf. You don't think a 16 is more logical and able to comprehend more than a 5 year old?
16 year olds take more difficult exams in school, they're learning to drive, the have more responsibilities, they know about ethics. Sure they're still kids compared to us (I'm 29) but in no way are they as gullible and innocent as a 5 year old.

[chris_987]

There are some teens that act like kindergarteners, like you can't tell the difference between them. That why we don't send sixteen years old to prison because we decided that they are still children.

So no when I see a 16 year old kill someone or blackmail someone I don't put them on the same level as someone who is mature enough to realize the consequences of there actions. That's why it's weird to assume that kids can be predatory against each other. But I have a feeling your just sexist against men because I bet you can't tell me how 16 year old girl can be predatory towards a 15 year old guy.

[WhitneySnow]

Being raped would probably make a woman hate men. Especially if she didn’t get therapy to deal with it.

[WhitneySnow]

Or blackmailed into sex. That could also make a girl hate guys. And with good reason.

[katiesmuff]

Not sure how you could hate one entire gender just because you had a bit of bad luck with one!

[SolitarySolace]

One becomes two and two becomes three and three becomes four and four next thing you know all of your experiences are the same that can't be bad luck and that can't be your own fault if it keeps happening regardless of who she is good or bad all women are capable of bad things even if they're intentions are good. If is completely understandable to develop a hate for women. People just can't accept a man possibly fearing what women these days are capable of.

[DreamLife7]

Exactly

[DreamLife7]

Hatred is a strong word I think both genders are annoying. Women can't accept rejection and are always in denial while men are selfish

[chris_987]

I wouldn't call getting raped annoying, or even getting a rape charge. Annoying. These are legit concerns and people act like men and women don't have the capacity to destroy each other. And the longer we pretend like it's not a reality. The more phony we look.

[DreamLife7]

Does hating an entire gender make sense to you? Think about what you're saying.

[chris_987]

It's understandable. I never said I would do it. Read the question carefully. I'm asking people if they understand why somebody would. And so far everybody is displaying a low ability to comprehend it.

Because I know if I asked a question like if some white people are dressed up in white hoods and hanged black people, is it okay for black people to hate white people? Most people would be able to understand why they would.

But for some reason this question stumps a lot of people.

[DreamLife7]

Our answer is no. That's what I'm seeing displayed in the comments

[chris_987]

Yeah, a lot of people don't have the ability to empathize. That's not surprising to me.

[DreamLife7]

They're not giving you the answer you want. No one's going to hate an entire gender. Grow up

[chris_987]

I don't want an answer. All I was saying is that they don't comprehend like you don't.

[DreamLife7]

You're looking for everyone to agree with you and if they don't you refer to them as not being empathetic.

[chris_987]

No there answering a different question, they keep saying that they can't hate half the population based of the actions of one individual, but that not the question I ask.

I was asking if they can see how someone can hate an entire gender based of one person. weither it's rape or being false accused.

I know they don't understand the question because I ask a follow up questions, can they see why black people who grew up in the civil rights era might hate white people because of what they saw the KKK do, and they say it's understandable. So the same would apply to someone who got raped or false accused. It not the fact that it happened that made them hate an entire gender, it's the fact the every man is built stronger than a woman so they have the potential to take your pussy if they decided too. And for the man it's every girl has the potential falsely accuse you of rape and send your ass too prison for the rest of your.

You can just resent the fact the opposite sex has that much power and grow to hate the fact that they hold so much power. And that is why it's understandable why someone could hate a whole gender.

[Paul09]

Generalization makes zero sense. You can disagree with a lot, but not all. There are more a-holes in the world that is for sure, humans are selfish in general. But there are few good people out there. Can't say all hate all lol

[Tim2nice]

Women hate men for some silly reasons such as historical patriarchy, things which happened centuries ago, political views, etc

[WindAtMyBack]

I don't believe your story. You are making shit up.

[LiamJHayden]

No. It might be justifiable to be hostile towards certain individuals of the opposite gender, but blanket blaming all for the actions of some is the core of much bigotry.

[DextroShade]

The penalty for false rape accusations should be the same as the penalty for rape, with the addition of the word "LIAR" being branded onto her forehead.

[NewgodOmega]

Hating the other gender is very common these days it's very understandable these days

[Alex-Snow]

I just do not like the word hate. Life is short and hate should not be part of it

[SolitarySolace]

Hate is everywhere get used to it

[verylovelyguy]

in what state? in new jersey it's legal 13-15 if less than 4 year difference

[Deserter2]

There's definitely things I hate about the other gender, my own as well. It's normal, people are annoying

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

I Hate women, but not the way u think''. Not bc, ov obsession. For instance, They're more appealing to a Man w/a ring on than w/out one!.

[Chthou95]

No. You can understand them better and learn to adapt or not play the game at all

[Anonymous]

Think it happens to many people of both sexes and their lives

[MadhuriDixit]

Screw feminists and misogynists

[chris_987]

It's nice to analyze people's motivation for things and not be ignorant about the world.

[laly520]

nope

its childish

[chris_987]

Ok let me explain it In a different way. After slavery there were white women who wanted to have sex with black men. But they didn't want to be discovered, so everytime word got out that white girl had done this she would claim it was rape and they would hang the black guy and kill him, all because she didn't want to be associated with him.

Now is it childish to assume that a black man would resent white women at that time because they hold all that power to end someone's life?

[DreamLife7]

@chris_987 if you're not mature enough to accept others answers stop asking questions

[chris_987]

You're not even ask the question but you're answering somebody else's? That's bad adequate

[serious]

Yes of course.

[Anonymous]

Hate 1/2 of the planet?

[chris_987]

Another person that doesn't understand the question lol

[Dongie]

Considering we're individuals, no.

[Hammertimeguy]

No that's stupid.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. That's a very stupid way to think..

[HouseMoat]

Republicucks do it, constantly

[Anonymous]

Feminists seem to think so.

[ashika02]

@MadhuriDixit Please follow and dm me now..

[robocop666]

men who hate women are called MGTOW

[Slim57]

It's understandable to hate anyone, people suck

[QuickToAsk]

No...

[Kristierose]

Why do that