I only attract feminine men despite being a feminine woman. How do I attract masculine men?

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I’m 18, very girly, very feminine, very bubbly. Why do I only attract feminine guys. I’m 5’9” I just want a guy who’s taller than me and acts like a real guy not a feminine guy who’s weak and doesn’t even act like a guy. There is an energy to a man that any guy who will chase me simply does not have. I’m sure there are masculine guys who find me attractive but they never approach or say anything. I really mean that too, men do not come up to me unless they’re 50+, I’m not even ignoring anyone, not even dms. Guys my age do not approach me unless they’re girly assholes. They’re easy to get alone with but never good people or datable. It’s so discouraging. Why do I only attract

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Accepted Answer

What I've noticed among the most stereotypically masculine type of guys I've known like soldiers, professional fighters, bouncers, and very strong construction workers, is that they often seem to go after one of two types of women.

The first are really wild and rebellious types of women, typically on the taller side, tougher, maybe has some tats, maybe smokes, drinks, hard women. That's maybe going by the idea of similarities attracting; it's like these really macho guys love macho girls to ride on their motorcycles and join them in the shooting range.

Then the second type is the total opposite: the softest types of women, often shy, innocent to a fault, often shorter, just absolute sweethearts. And that seems to be going by the opposites attracting kind of idea.

That's just my anecdotal experience but I have notice a peculiar nature for the biggest and toughest guys to often settle towards one of these two extremes with respect to their tastes in women.

It might just be worth paying some attention though to what sort of girls the toughest and most macho guys around you go after.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Do you consider yourself conservative? Because a lot of masculine men are conservative. What’s your personality like? Do you make a spectacle of yourself? Loud? Obnoxious? Look at me type of girl who wants attention? A lot of women want a girl who is feminine, can cook, wants a family, kids. A lot of masculine men don’t like the whole Ms Independent type of girl, or I don’t need a man type of girl. I would have to say it’s something about you that is attracting these type of men. Maybe you have a dominant personality.

laly520 · Accepted Answer

most of masculine men would go after 1 type of girls n maybe u aren't their type🤷‍♀️

ohsheeT · Answer

I don't see what the problem is I mean I like girly girls and I'm pure man you name it I can do it I can build it I can fix it.

The same time I could be soft loving gentle I can be rough and bold actually I can just be myself and that's all the above so I don't know why you have or why you think you have problems finding that type of guy because they're searching for you too

MrQun · Answer

You're an adult and as such you are responsible for your life. If what you are doing thus far isn't working then it is up to you to change your strategy in order to increase your chances of finding such a man. And this may include you being proactive and actually approaching men.

Choice and accountability. If you're not willing to put in the work, then you are basically choosing to stay single and to only attract feminine men.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Masculine men are conservative and have conservative values. Your best bet is a country-type guy. But you gotta have the same values as him because liberal values demonize masculinity and embrace/encourage femininity in men. Gotta vote Republican to attract these masculine men.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Maybe it’s where you live? Cities tend to be more progressive and men tend to be more in touch with their feminine sides as opposed to more rural places. Or maybe you’re giving off high-maintenance or “stop harassing me” vibes.

NewgodOmega · Answer

Its a bit late for that
Coz feminist branded men as toxic not any specific type
Men
As if all men so now there is mgtow they type of men you think you deserve is already mgtow so you can't find that type of guy

aceleon · Answer

i don't even know what you are counting as masculine though if you look for taller than you i could cut it with the being 5'10

abc3643 · Answer

Be careful what you wish for. You just might get it.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I think masculine men under 40 have all been sent to concentration camps.

Bobby88t · Answer

Im feminim too and can't get an erection so yes i think you will find the masculine guy you looking for just neef time

noohair · Answer

It is that you are repelling the masculine guys with your vibe.

dolemite58 · Answer

Move to a more rural area, there’s less girly guys outside of cities.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Maybe you are surrounded my a lot of em?

Anonymous · Answer

You're not worthy.

OddBeMe · Answer

I’ll chase you and slap you around like a bitch.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Act butch!

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