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I’m currently living with my parents trying to bag up $60,000 right now I’m sitting at $49,000. The original plan was to put a down payment on a house when I save up 60,000.

However, my girlfriend just bought her home and wants me to come live with her and pay little. Problem is I don’t agree with how she lives, but I have no say since it’s her house.

The condo is super small and she too much stuff. It’s to a point where the spare bedroom is off limits. She always has people staying over with their pets and kids. Everyone sleeps in the living room on the floor. Sometimes she even sleeps on the floor and lets her guests stay in her bed. Lots of her friends have keys to her house. I don't know if I can live that life with her.

With all that being said should I move in with her or just get my own my place?

I have a girl friend, who I've known since around May. She has a boyfriend so I always looked at her as a friend.

Since December, she became very flirty. Lots of touching (massaging, playing with my hands, fixing my hair a lot, touching my neck, etc.) And sexual jokes (For example, I showed her a hoodie and asked her opinion on it, she said if she saw me in that she'd spit on it, then told me with a flirty smile that that's not the only thing she'd spit on, or I accidentally squeezed her neck too hard and I told her I don't know her neck that well yet and she asked "Well, you want to get to know my neck well?"). Or when she said something slightly mean I told her I'll punish her and she said she'd like it and I'm turning her on. And tons of other examples like this. She's also not bothered by the fact that people think we're together.

She told me I'm her last thought before sleep, I told her don't joke around and she said she's not joking (I still think she was joking haha). Or when she almost tripped she said "I almost fell on you" and I said "Well you already fell for me anyways so what does it matter" and she didn't deny it and smiled. Another similar situation to this when she said my coworker loves me (romantically) and I told her "She's not the only one" and she blushingly smiled.

So I'm kind of confused on what I should think. I'd like to think she's just joking around but she says and does these so often that I don't know anymore.