Are gender wars stupid?

[ChicoFromThe305]

I was bored and can't sleep so I've decided to pop up on here to start a debate and maybe piss off some people, mostly the ones too lazy too read that just reply with ignorance.

I believe gender wars are stupid but not as stupid as the people that participate in it, people spend too much time up each other's throats about their gender being better just feeding into a game built on ego, people just want to be the best and I believe it's toxic, it's good to want to feel good about yourself and even have some competitiveness in you but I believe when it comes to genders, it's stupid and a loss for anyone involved, it all leads down to femininity and masculinity, women want femininity to be superior and man want the same for masculinity, it is biologically proven that one vessel is stronger than the other and that should be accepted because it doesn't include brain power where it's where all the validation is, superiority doesn't exist in genders because society is built standing with two legs and those legs are called femininity and masculinity, you can't have one without the other, and one can't be valid without the other, cause each one has an opposite and that opposite is each other, create a world with just men and see how long it lasts before they go extinct, do the same with women, same result, they are meant to be compatible with each other, not against each other, humanity is obsessed with seperation and the approval for superiority, both genders Included, seems like a game only fools participate in.

[Anonymous]

You are correct it is stupid to engage in the gender war and try to say Men or Women are superior. It just ends up hurting yourself.

In the past men were suffering due to the patriarchy because people made claims that men are more logical, less emotional, and more capable than women. So when men needed help they would always get the short end of the stick. Women talked as if they were inferior and helpless. Now women are the majority graduating college, becoming successful. While the rise in lonely unemployed men has increased. Again that is due to men still making the claim that they are superior and women are helpless and need assistance.

Now you see women getting the assistance and men getting nothing because men made claims that they were more superior. A lot of men aren't attractive to women anymore. Women are dating women. Women have no interest in men and men are starting to feel it hit them now.

A good number of men are starting to see that one gender is not superior to the other gender. Which is a good thing because now you see family court starting to become more fair. But on the other hand you have guys like Andrew Tate promoting patriarchal beliefs that a man needs to be the bread winner and a lot of guys are falling for it. It's not just those men are listening to him it is always women that are starting to think the man needs to be the bread winner as well.

Karama is real. You put good into the world than you will get good things. You discriminate and do bad then bad things will return to you as well. patriarchy might give a slight advantage for a short period of time, but it will come back to bite you in the ass.

[Opinion Owner]

It's like how men are no longer wanting to open the door or approach women because they don't want to be called a creep. It always comes back somehow. If women do bad to men it will come back to hurt them. If men do bad to women it will come back to hurt them.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep it's all results of dumb games indeed, never thought of this and it does seem like these can be the results to this gender war crap, good observation 💯👍🏼

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, it is the narratives that we give the genders. Like women are encouraged to be more social to be nurturing, but submissive and following orders to be a "good girl" and that effects a lot of their behavior and choices. They have a little more flexibility than men, but there are of course still disadvantages as well.

Whereas men are not encouraged to be nurturing or caring or being more social. They are told they need to lead socially, but be subtle with their emotions. Which need to be emotional and show vulnerability to start relationships with others. They are told that only a romantic or sexual relationship is seen as valuable for men and not friendships. Again you see Andrew Tate and other red pilers saying friendships with women are a waste of time and a man wants the sex.

And when men give compliments it's seen as sexual. So if a woman says to her female friend "you are so pretty" and touches her hair that is seen as normal. A guy doing that would be seen as gay or that the male is sexually interested. There are men with good social skills that are emotional and it is possible for men to be nurturing it's just not promote or is not the norm.

That is why we have a lack of Male teachers who understand boys and are better able to teach them because they were boy themselves at one point. But guys don't go into teaching filed because it is seen as a female job.

Or some guys might take their kids out to the park and just sit on bench as they play, but then have the police called on them even though they are just taking their their own son or daughter out to the park.

It's the narratives that we tell ourselves and promote that causes a lot of the self-destructive behavior that you see in society.

[Anonymous]

I mean if I say something like "Men are stronger on average" and that counts as sexist and hateful that's not my problem.. cause if someone get's triggered by a fact they need to get an helmet

The most gender wars I've seen is in the topic of sports , I've always advocated that Men are just better at sports and that's why trans should not be allowed to play in Women's sports... see? We are talking for the right's of Women athletes and not establishing any male superiority

[ChicoFromThe305]

Valid point but if you esculate then you are just as dumb as whoever is trying to argue tho

[IslaTheWitch]

we don't need another war... we need to understand each other, give up unrealistic expectations, and, with open minds, accept our differences. Because we are different, we think, react, and feel differently. Not only between genders but also between individuals.

For our survival and the best possible experience, cooperation between the two genders, not a war, is needed.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I agree

[MemeSupreme]

i was a captain in the last gender war

the things i saw and did changed me...

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well at least you were a captain lol

So who won? Cause I'm counting on the idea that you all lost ☻

[MemeSupreme]

do you really ever win in war? the people i saw... killed on twitter

the arguments was too much for some peeps

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm starting to think we aren't talking about the same thing memey 🤣

[MemeSupreme]

nope you were just never on the frontlines of the gender war

i was an uh... woman marine who fought men marines

[ChicoFromThe305]

Memey what are you talking about, you couldn't have been in the front lines cause in wars the frontlines are the first to go 😂

[MemeSupreme]

i was the only survivor... I DID SAY I SAW THINGS

[ChicoFromThe305]

Did you retreat memey? ☻

[MemeSupreme]

no its called strategy

i was rambo

[ChicoFromThe305]

Excellent strategy captain memey 😂

[normalice]

Of course. It's all a cynical ploy by the rich to turn a perfectly symbiotic relationship into a hostile one, just so the rich can have more money without any threat of people uniting to take it back from them.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Interesting observation 🤔

[jshm2]

You're not qualified enough to start a debate. There are no "gender wars" to begin with either.

Just people with strong opinions, and little power to do anything, being riled up by small, insular people like you.

[ChicoFromThe305]

There is gender wars, you being too old and blind to see it is a personal problem

[douride2]

Gender wars are as stupid as race or religious wars.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep I completely agree, they are all stupid and a waste of time

[Sonorous]

I think they're smart

[ChicoFromThe305]

Shame on you 😐👉

[Sonorous]

It's smart cause if people didn't have brains they wouldn't be able to even think to be at war

[ChicoFromThe305]

I said they were stupid not lack a brain lol

[Sonorous]

bro but answer me dis if someone don't got a brain are they smart or are they stupid?

[ChicoFromThe305]

They are dead lol

[Sonorous]

bro I'm startin to think u one of the mofos in my example

[ChicoFromThe305]

Way to reflect your stupidity onto me, pathetic smh

[Sonorous]

if I was stupidity then why would I be wearing this outfit instead of a normal one. Why would I run towards danger instead of away from it. like bro listen to u rn

[ChicoFromThe305]

If you were stupidity? You mean stupid?

Homie tried so hard he fumbled 💀

[Sonorous]

don't make me unclip one of my lubes bro

[ChicoFromThe305]

Try me I got water, fuck all your lube lol

[Sonorous]

make the first move pal

[WhiteBoyChill]

I agree it is stupid. Gender has no bearing on a person’s overall character.

[WhiteBoyChill]

On a more fundamental level though, we need eachother for the human race to survive

[ab2shifty]

Imma just keep it simple and agree it’s stupid

[Miah04]

Yup. Pretty dumb, and a sign of insecurity

[ChicoFromThe305]

Indeed so lol

[NathanDavis]

stupid AF...

[ChicoFromThe305]

Very valid opinion lol

[NathanDavis]

no much more to say about it either... lmao