Search Results: are these feelings real

Is he being too clingy or is it just me and my standards?

There’s this guy I’ve been in a talking stage for awhile but now we’re slowly getting out of that (as in more than that). We made out yesterday but I don’t really know what I want. He’s attractive and everything but...

pacifyherrr

Xper 4 Age: 18

Is our friendship ruined?

My best friend told me he had feelings for me last week when we went out with our friendgroup. I was drunk and did have feelings for him but since he was dating other girls, I was finally moving on from it. I was not...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Travel

I oddly like walking around ghetto areas (even though I don’t live in one). Is that weird?

There is fitness gym I have a drop in membership in that I sometimes stop by at. It’s a nice gym but it’s in a bad part of town. It’s not my primary gym but it’s convenient to drop by given my jiu jitsu training schedule....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Traits of a High Value Man vs. a High Value Woman... what to look for and how to handle one when you find one.

www.theadultman.com/love-and-lust/high-value-woman/ As you look at the two lists of what makes a high value woman and man individually, they look pretty similar, but as you start comparing the two lists against each...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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Is it too soon to move on and date, morally?

Me (23M) and her (21F). We met and over the course of four months we grew close physically and emotionally. We both communicated we wanted something more but the world was against us and eventually the distance and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Do you feel emotionally exhausted when thinking of your ex?

My ex’s mom messaged me that when my ex contacted me three weeks ago, wanting to know how I was, I must have pretended I was sad and weak, she was upset, I told him “I feel great and I am very happy where I am”. I,...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Do you also lose interest when someone seems very interested in you?

It always happened to me and partially that was contributing to the fact that I was single most of the time. I start liking someone A LOT. And when they start liking me the same way or more, I lose interest and have to...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Do you think he still likes her?

Do guys forget feelings or ever liking a girl after years? So my friend liked a guy in 2016, she’s shy did nothing about it, an dated someone else. The guy she really liked was a bar tender an she would hang with the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I just found out the real reason my ex fiancé broke up with me, now what? ?

I figured it was his family… His mom told me… His mom told me she has been feeling guilty and regretful about this. They have one more child, my ex’s sister, who has serious health problems and If my ex married me, they...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Should we start again?

Hey so a little back story my ex and I been on and off for 4 years we was toxic many people said we were just so young and wasn't ready for a relationship we met at 18 and 19. last year he took my virginity and eventually...

yannigurly

Xper 1 Age: 26

Flirting

Girls, My friends tried to get me and this guy together, but I'm attracted to someone else?

I went out with friends and one by one they got up and left me with this guy to talk. I was not feeling him. He talked about stuff that bored me the whole time, and once, I realised my shirt had gone up in the front, and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does he keep coming back?

Context: In 2016 i found out my ex husband cheated on me right when I was grieving my Mother’s loss. I broke up with him and then met a guy on a dating site which turned out to be a catfish. I found out he was catfish bc...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How to deal with break up and addiction at the same time?

So I’ve been smoking weed for almost 20 years now, for the most part. There were a few breaks here and there. I’ve been feeling like I’m done with it for some time now but have struggled to stop. I’ve been back...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He said he loves me 2 weeks in?

I need your thoughts on this cause I’m trying to wrap my feelings around it. My boyfriend said he loves me last night and I said it in return but I’m thinking about it and am getting anxious if I actually feel that way...

StormMistress

Xper 7 Age: 34

Education & Career

Could my teacher be my real father?

My former literature teacher was one of the best people I've ever seen in my life. I haven't seen him for 3 years, but I'm going to see him in 1 month. I really loved him very much, and he was also very interested in me....

BornToDiee

Xper 5 Age: 23

Why do people lie to me about loving me even when I confront them?

My boyfriend admitted to me that in one of the arguments we had a long time ago I was right about my assumption that he didn’t love me. He had been saying it and then he just suddenly stopped. When I asked him if he...

MilaRay

Xper 7 Age: 28

What are his intentions?

I have a coworker who’s about 55-60 to my 34. he’s married and has been for about 30 years, he has two daughters in their late twenties. his marriage is very unhappy, I don’t know all the ins and outs but he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How would you feel if your boyfriend lead you to believe he wrote something heart felt but it was actually copied from a site?

He gave me a bday card and I was about to cry at how loving it sounded but then some of it didn't sound like him because there's some things he's mentioned that we have never done before, and i looked it up and realized...

Anonymous

(36-45)