Do you think he still likes her?

[Anonymous]

Do guys forget feelings or ever liking a girl after years? So my friend liked a guy in 2016, she’s shy did nothing about it, an dated someone else. The guy she really liked was a bar tender an she would hang with the boyfriend there an would see the bar tender always staring or seeming curious during their early days of dating.

He seemed bothered that she was with someone but again with his job could he have done more or would it be seen as unprofessional? Years on she would always think back to how he made her feel the connection they shared. She doesn’t think she had with any other person ever.

She got with her partner cus it was comfortable and enjoyable. She’s now thinking it wasn’t real love. A that instant spark that we all want in life. She recently thought to add him on fb. They only ever spoke when she ordered a drink from him on multiple occasions. After adding hun days later he put on his fb his in a relationship. Her heart sank.

An instantly she realised she felt something for him. An now lost him for good. What do you guys think did he do this purposely as it only came on there after she requested. Just a girl trying to help her bestie out but love is hard.

[DaveJord]

First of all, I am very suspicious that you have such intimate details and knowledge about the feelings and emotions of your freind. Like you write so passionately about this subject, almost like it's YOU!!! ;) :)

No seriously, now this sound all too complicated. If this woman and bar tender had this special connection, then you two would have acted on it at that time. I know as a man, I would made conversation or done more other than just serve drinks to this woman. There would have just been more.

Now years later, if a man would have tracked down a hot and sexy bar tending woman on FB, yeah that would have just been creepy. Of course, for the creeper it's not creepy, because they are fully convinced that there is a special bond and emotional connection. But that is what ever stalker says right?

If I was the bar tender, I would of been creeped out. Like as a single guy, if you are hot and sexy, I would be interested in maybe talking and seeing were it goes. But once the whole, I remember you as a bar tender from years ago and I tracked you down on FB thing came out. I am cutting ties seriously I don't care how hot you are. Because that has crazy bitch rewritten all over it, like I don't even want to hook up with you... because if we had sex you would fall in love and its already creepy... just think how creepy that would be.

If a man wrote this post, you would have woman crawling out of the woodwork, calling him out a s being creepy, stalker 'ish type behavior.

I would tell my "freind", to chill on the FB stuff and move on. It kind of weirding people out, and it's kind of creepy. It this guy was the one she wants him to me, then it would have worked out by now and it's not.

[Asker]

Aha it’s not me sir I am engaged 🤣🙈sorry aha I am a writer. I do write with passion. Thanks so much for insight I agree.

[Chris123432169]

Hmm no I dont think so wouldn’t really make sense for him to do that.

[violadorserial]

No..