Shall I stay friends with him? ( PLS READ!!!) I think he still likes me?

[Anonymous]

So I met this guy 2weeks ago ago through mutuals, one night we went out clubbing and was staying together afterwards 3 days in a roll, we met each other’s friend and he brought me to see his parents (aw😍). Then he asked what we were and I said friends? Coz I only known him for a week and that was too quick so I said let’s be friends for now so I can get to know him better

Then one time he upset me as I thought he likes me becoz I’m Asian ( he follows so many Asian girls, and my ex was like that so I am cautious ) and I’m like maybe we should stop seeing each other for a bit. And he got upset. And few days later, he said hope u find someone for yourself and don’t think he’s for me but he still wants us to be friend I still like him, but I feel like I just need to take my time. Then after a few hours, we went out with my friend groups ( it was really intense for me to process my feelings in a few hours). He told me he likes me still and made out with me, but then kissed 2 different girls in front of me in the club, and I got so hurt, that’s why I had trust issues and wanted to take my time at first.

Now, he always try to keep contact and just asked me why are we all hanging out again and said ‘awe’ when I sent him a snap of myself. I am really not sure about him, I like him but wanted to take it slow but him kissing other girls in front of me after telling me he likes me really hurt.. I feel like my mood been drained for the past few days. Not sure if there’s still a chance between us..

[DaveJord]

First of all I think you miss handled this situation, no guy wants to be told that you just want to be friends. Too many women use this line, and saying that you just want to be Friends with a guy is clear sign that your not interested or you are trying to play games.

After 3 days of being together you should know if you are interested in dating someone or not. And who cares if he is into Asian girls what should that matter, social media is the devil because people make too much out of it and let it screws with their minds and cloud their judgement... and drive up their own insecurities.

So honestly I think you or he both blew it here. I think you came off as playing games with this guy, by being hot then cold with him... and then he blew it with kissing other girls in front you. I mean if he did this to make thinking it would make you jealous is super immature of him, and if he really cared about you he would not of done this... but you did tell him you just wanted to friends and that obviously is not what you really wanted if kissing other girls in front of you bothered you so much.

I would break it off with him and move on, this relationship got all thrown off at the beginning and honestly that is not how it should work when two people meet and its meant to be. You both seem to be playing games at this point and that is not good.

[Guy13]

Wow…you sound much more serious and mature than your counterpart.

[random_girl95]

I think once a person hurts you, only if he realizes his mistake then it's worth giving him a chance. Otherwise don't spend your time on someone who is not worth it.