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Search Results: how to get guys to approach me
Guys, If he actively tries to be close to me when he doesn’t have to, can I be mostly sure he’s into me?
A very handsome guy I work with is very shy (as I was informed by his friend and my coworker who grew up with him) and when he first met me he was incredibly awkward and nervous around me. He would be smiling and then he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do very handsome men often date average looking girls?
Looking back, From my experience, I’ve had men interested in me, when they were very handsome and could easily have the prettiest girls out there. I often wondered, why me, there are stunning girls out there. Might it be...
Ex boyfriend vs fuck buddy?
In a bit of a dilemma. I was with my ex for a year and 9 months but he kept saying that he couldn't see a future together, was always crap with making plans and would gaslight me. Anyway, we decided to be friends and I've...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to deal with people talking negatively of you?
I approached a girl at the place I ride horses at. It was a bad approach, I did not come across well, and she rejected me. I probably lingered a few seconds too long since her friend then made it a point to reject me...
animalwithin
Yoda Age: 36 Was he using sarcasm as a joke or he genuinely didn’t want to hold the door for me?
I gave him a compliment through message thanking him for walking me to my car and holding my door through messenger. He mentioned wanting to make sure I get to my car safely. The next time around he walked me again and I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it weird for a stranger to approach you and say something totally random?
Today after I finished putting the groceries in my car, I decided to take a second to take a picture of my outfit because I dressed up today and didn’t have time earlier to take a picture but anyways I was behind my car...
xoierra
Xper 2 Age: 24 How do I get a guys attention at the gym?
There's this tall handsome guy at the gym, I've been trying to get his attention but he's like super focused and never takes out his headphones. Any ideas on how to approach him or get his attention?
Emily98
Xper 2 Age: 27 What to do with a guy who talks to everybody but me?
The guy appears shy around me (but he is relaxed with almost everyone else). He tries to get closer to me but he always ends up coming around the corner and talking to someone else who is with me lol. Once he started...
Anonymous
(36-45) Anonymous
(30-35) Can someone give me genuine advice?
Hi. I'm in a bit of messy state of mind right now and want a third person opinion on my situation. I was talking to one guy I met through my best friend, we spoke for maybe 3, 4 weeks, since we study in different...
daisy_jones
Xper 4 Age: 23 How do you show a guy you’re interested?
So we got this new guy at my job who’s probably been there for two months but I’ve only seen him a couple times. I thought he was cute but a few days ago I asked him a question and noticed he was a lot cuter than I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Whenever I start thinking a quiet guys cute he has like 16 girls into him and 20 exes. Why do quiet men get so much attention?
By a quiet guy I’m talking about an attractive guy you may see in university or in public or through a friend who no one seems to know or you never see him speak to anyone. It’s like you think you hit the jackpot and...
Anonymous
(18-24) Whats a low value man?
some would say, a guy who is in community college for 9yrs and still hasn't gotten a degree, has no connections, can't manage his time, or take advantage of opportunities, doesn't care about his own health (eats whatever...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does it mean when you attract good looking men?
I have noticed that every guy that approaches me is either good looking but I always end up getting in relationships with ugly men with that being said guys that are good looking are always the men that get nervous when...
amanda_jaileen
Xper 5 Age: 28 Why do guys show interest then stop when I show interest back?
Growing up I never had like male attention except here and there. Only up until my first year of college. Now I get a lot of male attention, and a lot of guys approach me but some don’t come off too pushy like first...
Anonymous
(18-24) We have engagement rings, wedding rings, & Hindus have Bindis, that tell others you're no longer available, why is there nothing that says you ARE?
I've been hearing a LOT, recently, from girls complaining about how guys won't approach them anymore but, mostly, it's because those guys don't like being rejected either by those girls saying they're seeing someone,...
FunkyMonkee
Master Age: 58 Not sure what Im feeling about this situation? Is it my intution that smth is wrong or im overthinking?
So this guy (21M) and I (19F) just got offical 3 days back after 4 dates. We both are old school with dating tho we met on a dating app. it is hella weird cause I am the type to want to take my time knowing someone even...
confusedtea
Xper 4 Age: 22 Guys, was he interested?
I was walking on a trail and the guy in front of me I noticed he turned around and saw me and it just got awkward. He would even stop, look back, then quickly keep walking. I could tell he was wanting to turn around but...
Anonymous
(25-29) Anyone else think dating is a waste of time if you aren’t attractive?
For the past couple years, I tried to convince myself that I was physically attractive despite my lack of height (5’6” ish). I would dress up nice, stand with decent posture, act confident and what not. None of it worked....
JHAYES317
Xper 6 Age: 27 How often do girls get denied when approaching a man first?
I never get approached by guys because I’m fairly attractive and have a naturally intimidating look (not bragging that’s just what it is) but my anxiety about being denied or that he has a girlfriend keeps me from doing...
Anonymous
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