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I've met this guy 2 months ago at an extracurricular activity and immediately thought he was cute and I had the vibe that he liked me too, he even asked for my ig. Around 2 days after that, I couldn't stop thinking about him so I sent the scary first text and that's when we started texting constantly, he asked me "out" but didn't say it was a date explicitly, we had a lot of fun and saw each other 2 days after that, and so on. He initiates physical touch like back patting or holding my hand for a second etc, he gives me flowers, we talk about deep stuff sometimes until dawn, and overall I'm completely sure we like each back. However, even though he always has fun on our dates, I have to initiate them almost all the time. It's like he avoids telling me the exact day he will be free so I always have to suggest it. I'm feeling really uncertain about this whole situation and want to let him know how I feel because I'm a 100% sure he feels the same way but he's either scared of rejection, or scared of getting hurt in a future relationship. What do you think I should do?

matched with someone on 2 other OLD apps before we matched again on this one. The 1st time, maybe 2-3 msgs were exchanged before I deleted the app. 2nd time, we move to IG & he initiates wanting to meet up but I was put off by the fact that he never looks at my stories/reacts to posts but wants to meet in person. I just feel like you should show some kind of interest in my personal life if you’re quick to meet in person. This time around, he asks how I’m doing and actually talks about something interesting, which is what makes me reconsider. For about 2 wks to this past weekend, we’d message maybe 1-2x a day on the OLD app but it was 24 hrs before he replied again to me. He asked the last weekend if I’d be interested in doing some kind of activity with him. Tbh, I was busy last weekend & he said next (this) week might be better b/c he’s also busy but the fact reply time isn’t the 2x daily anymore (he still replies within the 24 hrs so far & I can take a bit longer), I just feel that along with the lack of engagement on social media implies I should just stop it in it’s tracks.

Okay so my father and I are not the closest because he makes me very uncomfortable ever since I was young. Recently I moved back to my hometown and have been visiting my parents often, this brought up a lot of memories of instances where my father made me extremely uncomfortable.

Now I recently got a new haircut and came over to my parents’ for a visit. My dad pointed out my new hair and said “wow nice hair, that makes you look sexy”. His comment made my skin crawl… I know he meant it as a compliment but it didn’t sit right with me. I personally don’t think it was appropriate as he could’ve just said I look pretty/beautiful instead - am I just overreacting?