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So there's a guy i accidentally started chatting to on the dating app im on. he's not after anything long term and i wouldn't be interested as he has a kid but as i found him attractive i swiped right when he didn't have that on his profile.

He told me straight away what he was after, without any of the crap i had before that they wanted to meet without saying what they wanted.

I told him the truth about never done anything before and my health and that if he didn't wanna continue talking he didn't have to.

Now he hinted that i could use him as a way of preparing me for whats to expect when it comes to guys. I did say i have attachment issues but we did agree if it did happen thered be no kissing or dates etc

Only thing im concerned about is im saying there won't be anything risky happening but im not sure if he would be hoping for more.

I've said if were still talking by the time my birthday comes around (14th) that we'd meet for a drink not far from where i live (obv im not gonna tell him that) and see what comes of that

He sent me a few pics, one with pants and one without, even tho i did say to keep them on. But the last pic didn't reveal anything and they put a block on photos too risky

Tried to find him on fb to no use and he obv split from his girlfriend and has court orders (but then my brother does and he hasn't done anything wrong)

29F, I just have certain expectations even though it’s still super early on. I’d normally reply to his msgs on the apps in the evening time daily, I don’t have the capacity to be on the apps any more often than that. He asked to go to dinner, I said I’d prefer to speak on the phone first, he understood & we spoke yesterday on the phone with my # hidden. He made the plan for us to go to dinner Friday & 10 min after our call yesterday afternoon, he asked if I had discord. When I replied in the evening yesterday, he replied this morning asking to use discord to do the video chat if that helps & said sorry for taking long to reply. Now I feel like since this past Sunday he hasn’t been msging as often, firm believer no one is TOO busy when you’re actually interested. He said he couldn’t do the video chat today but can make time tomorrow, I proposed a time & if he pushes back, I might just bail on Friday.