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For many years now, I have been seeking a woman that has never had a boyfriend. I would only accept a woman without a romantic past. I am 29, and I finally found her, at least I thought.

We met on New Years. She is 26, and a couple of weeks ago, we made it official. We are boyfriend/girlfriend. She is my very first real relationship, and I am hers. I was her very first kiss.

Although, something is really bothering me, and I don't know if it is a red flag. You would think if I was a girl's first boyfriend, she would be super excited, intense, and at least somewhat clingy. She does not really reach out to me much. I feel she is the type that can go days without saying anything and not think much about it. I don't know, I am kinda feeling a little disappointed about this.

She assumed I'm a patient man that has self-control. Though she has expressed to eventually wanting to take things to the next level. Her assumption is wrong though. It's not about having self-control nor being a patient man. I don't have much sex drive; little to none. It's lower than even a reserved, shy woman.

I'm ok with making-out, holding hangs and hugs though. I still feel attraction towards women but I just don't feel like having sex. Our relationship is great without arguments. I just haven't told her that. I don't want to lose her though. I wish I can keep her. Am I really stringing her along?