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Simp

A mf who will defend a girl he has feelings for to the death. He will treat her like royalty, buying expensive gifts, food, and even give her his Netflix account. He will also be seen commenting stuff like “Go bestie 😍” or “Material Girl 😌” on her Instagram. While he’s treating her like an A-list celebrity she’s treating him like a fan or peasant. She’s showing her sneaky link or boyfriend the cringeworthy texts that the simp sends her. She also uses his Netflix as background noise while her real man rearranges her guts so that her parents won’t hear her cheeks getting slapped. The simp will do this just so that his crush will acknowledge him in hopes of the simp smashing or dating the girl. All the simp gets in return is “Thanks Bro” or “You’re my bestest Bestie 💙”. He will also defend a girl for being a hoe by saying, “She doesn’t do it for you” or “Leave Her Alone or I’ll fight you”. If there’s one emoji to describe a simp it’s 🤡

Simp: so what if she has 120 bodies she is a confident woman that you could never pull.

Me asf: ight simp she let the whole football, basketball, baseball, and even band team hit and yet to her you’re her bestie 4 life. You seriously bought her 300 dollars worth of lululemon, Starbucks and Chicfila, and you gave her your Netflix, Disney Plus, and paramount plus account knowing she has 3 sneaky links lmao.

In relation to something like online dating or some other scenario where the potential for dating is known, I always start my conversations with non-sexual or non-attraction stuff.

What kind of music do you listen to?
What are your favorite shows?
Tell me about your dog.

I figure the intent is to show up front that I'm interested more in her and not just her body.

But I get the feeling sometimes like girls think I'm somewhat uninterested or not sexually attracted to them. In the case of online dating, I wonder if they're expecting me to head in the attraction direction right away. But I always figure the attraction is assumed when I picked her. But perhaps they don't see it that way, and maybe a bit of flattery right off the bat makes a better impression. Or maybe it sounds like I'm tiptoeing around my intentions rather than being up-front.

What are your thoughts? Would you prefer to get the conversation started with being up-front about attraction and intentions, or do you prefer to wait until things progress a bit more?