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Search Results: is it selfish of me
New boyfriend told me to go f myself, but he may have been drinking... do I dump him?
We have only been dating a little while, but boyfriend was upset with me over texts because I was depressed about my day. He said I bring him down. So I sarcastically said thanks for making me feel better (he didn't) and...
SalisaSD
Xper 1 Age: 33 Do you think I should accept help from my parents for a house deposit?
I moved to a very small town an hour away from my home town for a new job. It’s my dream job and I’ve been there 5 years now and love it. And I’m still close enough to home for seeing family and friends at weekends. I was...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is he selfish or am I overreacting?
My boyfriend has been going through a lot the past few months. I've been there for him and concerned about him and tried to console him. But lately I've realized how I have put myself last and how he hasn't put as much...
Cali86
Xper 4 Age: 40 Am I being selfish?
Recently my boyfriend has been very distant lately and off, I haven't been getting a lot of intimate stuff either I understand when guys get stressed they back off certain things but since I see that I've been trying to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why should I make efforts when I have been nice to these people? I can't even believe that this is all coming from older women and older people?
I had a three-year time when I was dating my ex, and I was going through depression, and I wasn't working. I met these people since I was a teenager. They are the family of friends of my sister and her husband's family. I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it really bad to live with one's parents as an adult?
I think outside the Western world it is expected that adults should live with their parents, even after marriage. The West is the only place where it is considered as bad. I am from India and I tried to leave home and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do some guys show interest in you then pull away saying they need to work on themselves?
The past 3 guys that I’ve been talking to have all mentioned either that they’re not ready for a relationship or they mostly say that they need to work/focus on themselves. It’s very selfish to me because one, it’s...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does a revenge cheater deserve some sympathy?
Out of the many infidelity stories I've read, that one that realized still being hurt and cheated in revenge makes me feel some sympathy for them. What if they started as a decent, good and innocent person that would've...
sunshinexoxo1
Xper 4 Age: 32 What do you love the most about yourself?
Asking the question to make us look at the positives in ourselves as a lot of us don't love the person who needs it most and that's ourselves. Self-love is the best love and it's not selfish. So, what trait of yours or...
Saiesh30
Xper 6 Age: 32 Girls, are you a cheater, a homewrecker and selfish? Do you care about anyone but yourself, especially when you're cheating?
Girls, It seems that cheating, even if you're married doesn't seem to stop you. Have you turned into a married slut?
What do you think is more important in a relationship to have it work: love or commitment?
Love or commitment? For me it's commitment. Your commitment shows you love them and want to make it work. Commitment is something you do because you love them. It's a way to support your partner. You are COMMITED to...
TenderFantasy
Yoda Age: 42 
I'm a guy who wants to marriage and kids one day but I feel guilty about it because of what my wife would have to go through. Is this normal?
Even if she also wants kids I hate the idea of a woman suffering for 9 months just to make my dreams come true. I feel selfish and exploitative.
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I break up with him because I'm not strong enough or is it selfish?
My boyfriend is battling depression so he is unable to care for me and love me the way he used to. He is seeing a therapist but I don't know when there would be progress because I know that it takes awhile to get better....
Anonymous
(25-29) Should my boyfriend stay home with me if I am sick?
I had plans to see my boyfriend. I‘ve been sick for about a week so I‘ve been spending everyday at home. I was really looking forward to that night because I thought he would come over and spend a few hours with me. But...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is liberalism a virus 🦠?
Society is collapsing. Women aren’t having enough kids, they’re told their career is more important. They are told to be selfish and put themselves first. Empowered to act like men instead of accept the female life...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
Why are people so insensitive about my mothers death?
My mother passed passed away last week and I am absolutely heartbroken! She died from a deadly lung cancer. It was stage four cancer. She was only 53. Damn it! I’m already getting insensitive comments. One said, “What did...
Anonymous
(25-29) TenderFantasy
Yoda Age: 42 Are more men wising up to “friendzone” bs nowadays?
I’m hearing fewer guys complain about this nowadays but it was definitely a big issue 5-10 years ago. My theory is that there was “exploited chivalry vs. modern girl mismatch” phenomenon going on where many guys were...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I not legally entitled to a share of the profits from the sale of ex's house if I lived there for a few years and contributed?
So a few months ago, my boyfriend of three years and I broke up. Shortly after we got together, he bought a house, and a few months later, asked me to move in, and I thought it was a great idea, as it was closer to my...
Anonymous
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