I'm a guy who wants to marriage and kids one day but I feel guilty about it because of what my wife would have to go through. Is this normal?

[Anonymous]

Even if she also wants kids I hate the idea of a woman suffering for 9 months just to make my dreams come true. I feel selfish and exploitative.

It's normal

It's not normal

[Avicenna]

Well, there will be some hormonal changes, but that's part of a pregnancy. She'll know what she is getting into.

[mathnerd]

It's completely normal, congratulations for being so considerate!! You are being considerate, not selfish and exploitative. If your wife wants kids too, go for it, of course it doesn't make you a bad person. While pregnancy is uncomfortable, having kids (if you want them) is completely worth it!!

[Anonymous]

No it's not normal most guys are turned on by that face and her pregnancy!

Your so not ready for it keep this a dream and use condoms!

[Asker]

But how do women feel about it? Even if she wants kids she must feel like an incubator

[Opinion Owner]

Doeends on her mood and how she was brought up! Most women don't see it that way! It's not a chicken egg inside us!

[Opinion Owner]

Who mad you all self righteous white night?
Cough simp!

[Asker]

I don't like seeing other people in pain and I really don't like them taking it out on me

[jahaims]

They literally evolved to carry children. Stop being a virtue signaling mommas boy.

[Asker]

I don't like the idea of her being miserable for 9 months and then taking it out on me

[Lara_Croft]

God loves you, it is well. Do not consider compassion the same thing as fear and lack of manliness. Pregnancy is a beautiful but painful process. But it is well, be a man 1 Corinthians 16 vs 13 and let your future wife know you;ll be there throughout the process

[aceleon]

dude you are not ready to even ask a girl out yet, with thislevel of naivety you are bound to be friendzoned, dumped or cheated.

let me give you the secret about girls that can prove to be useful

everything we are they are not, we are complete opposite creatures.

[tremendousfern]

Women love being pregnant actually, they just pretend they don't so you'll feel bad for them and pamper them. Remember that.

[Asker]

I don't think women fake that kind of pain. They genuinely seem to be uncomfortable

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, all women have to go through all that to have kids.

[strateguy632]

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