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I have been married to my wife for 3 years. Before we moved in after we got married, I helped her pay off her debt to zero. We moved in and for that first year of living together we struggled a bit financially but were very happy with our relationship. She earned more than I did so I struggled hard to match our expenses 50/50. All my money that year went on essentials because that was all I could afford.

A year and a half passed since we moved in together and we are now in July. I now earn more than her and we are at a good financial path. She has the habit of not sharing her finances even though I tried my best to establish open healthy communication. I would often find myself having to ask her repeatedly about it. On that same month of July I told her to spill the beans... How much does she really owe in credit debt. She said 17k on one card and 6k on the other. A little blown back from that response I ask her to please not use her cards anymore and we can focus on it together. The plan was to save as much as we can for 6 months and then pay it off in large chunks in the thousands. After that day I almost never saw her pull out any credit cards.

Fast forward to last night. We had our first argument ever. It was a healthy argument, and we had a lot of respect and love in the argument. The arument started when I realized that her father was giving her a 1000-dollar allowance to help pay off her cards. Which I wasn't aware of and personally against my morals and she knows that. Her parents work so hard for that money. I love the support they give to her but why? Then I asked her why. 8 minutes of deflecting and trying to understand she reveals he owes 25k on one card. JUST ONE. My jaw dropped. I was trying to figure out how she spent 7k on her card in 6 months on top of what she had on her checking account. She spent in total of 16k in six months on the information I have alone based on the one card and the checking account.

I really need some help with this.

I swear women just break families apart. From their parents and brothers.

After marriage I’m living with my parents. I’m carrying forward their legacy and they live in a mansion. So good space for everyone.

My sisters are married and have moved out. I’m not leaving my parents on their own. They’ve done so much for me I’m going to look after them. Repay back their sacrifice for me.

at least it’s more money for investment property.

I'm kind of bored. Here's a dating poll. Vote based on your gender and/or se xuality. Yes; none of them are "perfect." That's not the point. Just pick the best one for you out of these options. Who's Best Girl/Guy?

FOR STRAIGHT GIRLS AND GAY DUDES:

Option A - A 5'5"/165 cm very short, 21 year old, decent-looking, fit guy, who is Asian or Indian, is poor, only earning $15K a year working in fast food or as a barista, who has a nice and romantic personality.

Option B - A 5'10"/178 cm short, 27 year old, overweight guy with a beer belly/dad bod, who is black or Middle-eastern, earning $40K a year as a security guard, who is very funny, charming, respectful, interesting, and astute in personality.

Option C - A 6'3"/190 cm tall, 33 year old, handsome, athletic guy with a six pack, who is white or Hispanic, earning $160K a year as a lawyer, who's also divorced and has a small pe nis, and has a big ego & short temper in personality.

FOR STRAIGHT GUYS AND QUEER FEMALES:

Option D - A 4'10"/147 cm very short, 22 year old, fair-looking, fit & in-shape girl, who is Indian or Middle-eastern, grew up spoiled by her rich parents and doesn't work for a living, is highly attracted to you romantically and physically, who is known to be easily jealous & clingy in personality.

Option E - A 5'5"/165 cm short, 26 year old, chubby and busty girl, who is white or Asian, and works as an office secretary at a small business earning $32K a year, and is rather lazy outside of work, who is very loving & motherly to everyone in personality.

Option F - A 6'0"/183 cm tall, 30 year old, beautiful, toned and slim girl, with a 34DD cup bust, who is black or Hispanic, earning $60K a year as an amateur Instagram model, who has a past as a former escort/pros titute and OF worker, who is very down-to-earth & modest in personality.

I refuse to move out of my parents house. Because it will just be them living there in a huge house on their own.

My parents have supported me so much on my education so I will pay it back and look after them in old age.