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2 years ago I gave an acquaintance my phone number, which is something I already hate doing. For most calls he would either end the phone call after a few minutes to "see why 'she' is calling" or talk with people off the phone.

Important Side Note: He told me about a planned group outing with our mutuals and "someone else." I found out through social media that "someone else" was a girl I've seen around but never really spoke to. I suspect that "she" is the person he would cut our phone calls short to talk to. I thought it was really weird of him to hide that she was on the trip, especially since I recognized her; I literally don't care who he dates because I was only platonically interested in him at best. This incident, however, made me feel like being his friend was not a good idea.

One day, I told him that he should delete my number if he calls me again and exhibits poor phone etiquette. Like clockwork, the next time he called, he cut the call short because he couldn't understand why "she" was calling him. I told him to never call me again and promptly stopped answering calls and texts.

As time went on, he and "she" developed a relationship that he posted about. "She" recently had his baby. I was hanging out with some mutuals and he came around. I acknowledged him but cut my time short because I didn't want to spoil the mood. Since then he has been watching my social media stories, DMing me, and calling me. I have not responded.

A part of me feels bad for my lack of communication with him, but I also don't understand WHY he's trying to talk to me. A part of me wants to ask him why he's trying so hard to engage me when he should be tending to his girlfriend and his baby, and a part of me wonders if he's just trying to work on being friends. I personally do not trust this man and would rather he would accept that I told him to leave me alone 2 years ago than pursue a friendship.

WDYT?

I work with this woman who is 24 years old now. But when she was 23, she said this guy only like women her age, and our other coworker age (21). The guy was 52 at the time. She said “He like them young tender-roni women.”

I don’t know if she was speaking from facts because he told her, or assumptions. How she were talking, it sound like she were assuming.

But he been with older women, was on vacation with an older woman this pass June. Someone close to his age. He’s a fine older man, who is single. He checks out every good looking woman, especially if she has a butt. The women he’s known to talk to looks like they are late 20s and definitely up.

So I think my co worker allow social media, and what those guys say get to her head. Thinking every older guy JUST date women in their 20’s.

I want to see what y’all think.

DOES THIS GUY DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE & SHALL I REPLY?

Spent 5+ hours on a first date with this guy.

We were supposed to meet on Sunday again but he went on a birthday party a night before. On that night I said out of joke "hope you'll still meet me the next day". Instead of saying yes, he said "we will see". A man is 30 years old, so I'd hope he would be responsible. Instead of that, he invited ME to drive all the way to that city to party with them. Of course I didn't do that. Anyways I got turned off so I cancelled the date cause I already could see it wasn't going to happen anyways. Now let me mention we live an hour away from each other so we can only meet on the weekends.

He's sent quite some messages since then:

sorry for a delay. I'm so tired from yesterday (sun 3 pm)

sorry for not meeting you, it wasn't intentional... if you're upset (sun 6 pm)

i'm going to sleep. hope to speak to you tomorrow. gn (sun 9 pm)

good morning (mon 5 am)

are u not interested anymore annie? (mon 12 pm)