Search Results: having sex

Why does he act like he’s in love with me on the phone but in person he barely even talks to me?

met this guy on instagram, we started talking and i enjoyed chatting with him. he had already made lots of promises like he’d never hurt me or lie to me, stuff like that. he was quite desperate for a relationship since he...

melaniegonza

Xper 3 Age: 18

Is it normal to break up with your partner because of how connected they are with their family?

I hate family because I grew up in an awfully dysfunctional family. She and I met off of this same principle, as I made it blatantly clear from meeting her that I am not family oriented. I cut off my family and I have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, what would make you want to take things slow when starting to date someone?

I'm currently seeing this guy I met online from a dating app. We met earlier this month and he said he was looking for something serious and wanted to take things slow as in: no sex until we are serious/in a relationship,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I don’t know what to do because I already invested so much, what advice do you have for me?

A few months ago I found out that my boyfriend of four years and who I have been living with for three years was cheating on me with a woman he was working with. He got fired from that job but that didn’t stop him from...

Anonymous

(25-29)

So, my wife wants an open marriage, I don't want it, what do I do?

I 38M have been with my wife 30F for 5 years and we’ve got two kids (3 and 1.5 years old). For the first year of our relationship, we had frequently sex and after that, my drive kinda dwindled and it went from a daily...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He friendzoned me but won’t leave me alone, why?

I known him for a total of 10 months and didn’t find out until the last minute what his intentions were. We were having a sexual relationship. We were talking and he randomly told me he had just got a girlfriend so he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If sex appeal only attracts players, can you really attract a guy on dating apps without showing your sex appeal?

I guess some will say what is meant by sex appeal. I mean, a really beautiful woman won't need to try to give off sex appeal. She could probably wear a hotdog costume, blanket, bin liner and still look sexy without...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

What do you think of trivial or white lies in a relationship?

For instance you had the worst and most stress day at work, your partner asked you and you tell them your day was a bit stressful but ok overall. You don't elaborate too much details nor tell them the truth about having a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Frustrated by the circle of crap dating but also feel sad if I stop?

I've heard it all. About not looking and enjoying life without trying to find "the one" and all that. I have a pretty active life. I study, work, go to events, cafes, clubs. But I miss having those crush feelings when you...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

Do guys feel closer/more attached after having sex with a girl for the first time? We've been friends for 5 years and have an emotional connection?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this considered cheating?

I don't have many friends and the ones I do have never wanna chill. I am married, but it would be nice to have some social interaction with someone I am not having sex with or trying to have sex with them. I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he say we're not together after 4 months?

What does it mean if a guy says I'm not his girlfriend & we're not officially together yet after texting, calling, regularly dating, introducing me to his friends, buying me stuff & having sex for 4 months? We're 20. In...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Ex called me 17x in a row last night then I got a wrong number call from a woman the next day. Coincidence or no?

Been no contact with an exceptionally toxic ex. Blocked him on 3 different platforms. Days after blocking a fake FB account I am positive is his, I get a barrage of calls from an unknown number. 17 to be exact. Messages...

Radiate143

Xper 6 Age: 26

Why do men not care if you get sick/cancer?

I had a health scare recently and I told my now ex that he should get tested. He told me he already got tested but I told him he was the only person I've been with sexually all these years but now I'm at risk for cancer....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this guy dangerously obssess of me?

I'm just having this nagging feeling he is because he truly is getting out of control. We started talking since March and I noticed on the onset, he escalates the relationship fast. At first, he was really sweet and...

Ofoceansbeaches1

Xper 5 Age: 35

Your partner is complaining everything about what you do?

Complaints 1. Every chat U throw, U got complaint 2. Every issue you will be blamed 3. Nothing special about U all is a mistake 4. No time for you, only when she feels she wants to U, then U have a time 5....

TheFirstMan

Xper 5 Age: 33

Society & Politics

Is the male loneliness epidemic really about loneliness? Or is it an issue of frustration with reality at large?

Essentially, the idea is that the “male loneliness epidemic” is not about loneliness but about men being frustrated with how their lives didn’t pan out the way they were told to expect, especially when it comes to dating....

CupcakeTheDestroyer

Master Age: 32