Search Results: sex on first date

The Red Pill Community Is a Disaster And Nothing But Mysogyny. (Ex-Member speaks out)

Hello everybody how is your day been going, I have been in quarantine for 10 days and got infected with Covid-19. I have been vaccinated about 3 Times and so having mild symptoms from feeling like I have a cold. But...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Girl's Behavior

Ladies, a world where men no longer approach women, and women have to make the first move in everything romance related. Does that sound appealing to?

A lot of men don't approach women these days do to a fear of being seen as a creep, or they and don't want to ruin a woman's day. So are you cool with being the ice breakers, and being the one to take charge in everything...

GrapeApe98

Xper 4 Age: 32

Relationships

Im... confused?

Me and my girlfriend (both 18) are in relationship for about a month. For me, this is my very first relationship. I'm kinda the "shy, introverted, lonely, diffident" kind of a guy. We both are obsessed with each other,...

Formal_Chicken

Xper 2 Age: 22

Dating

Does my friends with benefits still want more? Is he supressing feelings? How should I go about this situation?

so, I already know I'm gonna get some sort of shit for everything I'm about to say and I'm aware that friends with benefits can be seen as good/bad relationship to be in, but I really do just wanna rant this all out there...

UNKNOWN1214

Xper 2 Age: 22

Girl's Behavior

What this meaning from girl 👍🏼🙃?

In first date we have sex and i want 2 date

badg96

Xper 6 Age: 29

Dating

Why girls don't want a second date with me even after we kissed and had sex on the first date?

Is because im ugly?

badg96

Xper 6 Age: 29

Dating

Is it wrong for a 21M to date a 17F?

I met his mom and he told her I was 18 at first but after only two days of telling her, he told her the truth, that we had slept together and I was actually 17, he said she wasn’t mad about the age thing but that he lied....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

My “dating” life SUCKS! Why does it seem like all the hot guys only want sex from me, but all the guys I don’t find attractive want something serious?

I’m clearly NOT my types “type”. Don’t get me wrong tho , because hot attractive guys DO approach me… as do the unattractive ones, as a matter of fact.. any man i EVER dated , talked to , in a relationship with , slept...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Women with double standards

YES please don't get me wrong there are plenty of men out there too. I will also be clear I am NOT talking about all or even most women who are out there. If you come here calling me a sexist when really I am calling out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Dating

Why can't men just be honest about their intentions from the start?

I met with this guy off a dating app in July we talked a little bit. And in August we had our first date we went out to eat. And then on our next date, I went to his house. We had sex (before we did he said he didn't want...

ChildofVenusxox

Xper 1 Age: 39

Dating

Guy insisted for sexual favors on first date is it a red flag?

So I went out with a guy I met last night and he was very nice and very respectful and cute we decided to hangout nearby his house and I told him I’m on my period so I don’t wanna do anything sexual I’m not on my period I...

Karenjjj

Xper 4 Age: 26

Dating

She Keeps Contacting Me After Seemingly Rejecting Me?

Three days ago, I posted this question: "She Says She Is Sick, A Day In Advanced Of Our 4th Date Plans?" Shorter version of that post: -Met a woman my age (late 20's), she aggressively pursues me, we have three...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Friends with benefits or is there anything more?

I have been seeing this guy for a month and a half. He is in my circle and we hug out (just the two of us since I met him) at least 4 times a week. We go for dinner, have deep conversations, have great sex and we lose...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Heterosexual men, would you date/have sex a transwoman?

After a transwoman whined that they can't get a date and are 'getting desperate.' They said it's transphobic for men/lesbians to put no transwomen on their dating profiles. I said its not transphobic and it's because they...

Anonymous

(36-45)

After a transwoman whined that they can't get a date and are 'getting desperate.' They said it's transphobic for men/lesbians to put no transwomen on their dating profiles. I said its

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Dating

She Says She Is Sick, A Day In Advanced Of Our 4th Date Plans?

I met her ~3 weeks ago, she was immediately interested, pursued me, etc.. I was too busy to meet up within a few days, and set plans for ~1 week away. She was initiating texts daily, expressing lots of interest, some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Do you think, based on our second date, I should continue spending time with this person as friends or anything at all (part 5) ?

1 🤔 while you were single, were you still having sex? 2 OK sooo I do have friends with which there is a mutual attraction but where neither of us see a relationship working out and sometimes we “spend time together.” 1...

VIVANT

Guru Age: 28

1 🤔 while you were single, were you still having sex? 2 OK sooo I do have friends with which there is a mutual attraction but where neither of us see a relationship working out and

1 🤔 while you were single, were you still having sex?

2 OK sooo I do have friends with which there is a mutual attraction but where neither of us see a relationship working out and sometimes we “spend time together.”

1 So would you let me know if you were still “spending time together” if I decided I was ready to date (in future)

2 wouldn’t be “spending time together”

with them if You told me you wanted to date me.🙂

🤨 Well, what if I (in future) decided to date but I am not “ready to spend time together” ?

(SEX y’all we mean sex. In case anyone didn’t catch it. “Spending time together” was the euphemism P 1 originally used for banging his friends, & I was repeating for consistency)

2 If I have a reason to wait, I can wait. But we don’t really have to worry about that at this point.

1 🤨🧐😐 Wait so then why did you go through all that stuff in the first place about how you hope you can marry while your grandparents are still here. You seem fairly casual so I don’t see why you felt the need to mention it. I wouldn’t have even been concerned about any of this 🤦🏻‍♀️

2 Well honestly they are relatively young so they have time. And while I really mean it I also do not believe in forcing things… So I am hopeful but careful.

1 Ok

2 Ok

2 … So… what now 😐

1 I don't know 🤷🏻‍♀️ 👀

(Quiet for a long time)

2 Are you ready to go home? I will walk you. You are welcome to stay but it’s a bit late. I know you get up early af)

(So he walks me 🏡 I was quiet during)

2 OK so no kiss but Can I hug you😁?

1 hmm OK. maybe. ok NO. OK. 🤔

2 Are you sure? 👀

1 I think so? I don't know. nvm. Well, Uhh — maybe next time. Sorry not feeling it atm. 🤦🏻‍♀️

2 It’s OK. 😌

(He buttoned my top coat buttons which was a bit weird 👀 but I guess it’s something to do I don't know)

2 You will be at your tree 🌲 tomorrow?

1 Yeah… 🤷🏻‍♀️

2 See you on my way to work. You can tell me If you want to hang out / when you want to, yeah?

So we said good night. 🌚

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Dating

Do you ever consider having sex on the first date?

or would you rather wait and get to know each other more

Camila_03

Xper 3 Age: 22

Guy's Behavior

Do guys “shit test” women?

Women are notorious for sending mixed messages and “shit testing” men. They say something is okay when it really isn’t. They want to see if the guy is self controlled and wise enough to pass the test. However there are a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Women are notorious for sending mixed messages and “shit testing” men. They say something is okay when it really isn’t. They want to see if the guy is self controlled and wise enough

However there are a few scenarios men are guilty of this as well. I can think of only two scenarios where men unfairly “shit test” women.

Shit Test #1: He pressures her to have sex early. She gives it up and he then later loses respect for her.

A lot of men judge women for being promiscuous/easy. If she initiating random sex with lots of guys that’s one thing. But if a guy pressures her to do it and she gives in (and enjoys it) then he really has no right to judge her. It was all his idea.

Yet there are some men who do this and frankly it’s a double standard bs. I actually stayed in long term relationships with all three of my past gfs despite having sex with all on them within 3 dates. One ex girlfriend said she would of done it on our first date (we did on the second) if I initiated. But I am actually glad I didn’t.

Shit Test #2: Telling her you don’t mind if she hangs out and talks (a lot) with other guys including exes. However when she does the man gets angry/jealous.

Jealousy is a tricky bastard. On one end a very controlling man is extremely insecure. He gets pissed off if another guy looks to long at his girlfriend or tries to chat with her (often the other guy doesn’t know she’s taken). It can actually be a compliment when other guys check out your girlfriend/wife JUST as long they are respectful about it. But when they cross a line it deserves an ass kicking.

On the flip side some guys seemingly don’t mind at all of their girlfriend/wife hang out with other guys and even do more with them. It’s like they are somehow demonstrating they aren’t controlled by jealousy.

But the truth is some guys “say” it’s alright when deep down they are not at all okay with it. It’s there way of “testing” their girlfriend/wife to make sure they really love them.

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Dating

Women how do you find men that don’t just want sex or ask for it on the first date?

So I’ve been trying to help some of my friends find decent boyfriends but every guy they talk to wants sex right away. All of my friends have only been wiry 1-3 men sexually their whloe lives and take date for marriage. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

We don't do sex, not even kiss, but you do get close to me. We date, I make clear that it's a date, why are you still coming when you're with him?

"It's just one call away. And you'll leave him, you're loyal to me." To those who are somewhat 'closer' to someone else than their SO, what makes you doing what you are doing? You know that times where you put...

Vanidal

Xper 4 Age: 32