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Search Results: are these feelings real
Why does doing the right thing feel so bad afterward?
I’m travelling and staying in a hostel. I met a woman there and things escalated quickly into kissing and making out. In the moment it felt exciting and validating — it was my first real make-out experience she put my...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is giving out “olive branches” to people you don’t get along with (either never or had a falling out with) more rare nowadays?
There was a young woman I started to get to know romantically. However, after a few weeks chatting with she blindsided me with a very unfair (and completely unexpected) rant about radical politics. This is not the first...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do woman give up on potential mate if he is kinda shy?
So I’ve had many of them obviously I’m still a virgin obviously can’t even be sure they were ever interested in the first place or just in my head. Guys have good reason enough not to approach it’s not even a conversation...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does he like me?
I started as the quieter, smart, somewhat distant type while my friend (the FB) is warm, outgoing, and socially magnetic — the typical popular girl boys chase at first. But over time, as people notice me more, the...
Anonymous
(Under 18) Why does she get jealous but doesn’t commit?
So this girl I’ve been talking to texted me yesterdaynight. She said she started to notice herself getting worried when i go out if there is someone else for me and that she notices that she herself feels guilt for even...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys, Is he serious or playing with my feelings?
So, around 10 months ago I met a guy online. We spoke a lot, slept on call together despite a 9 hour time difference. (He would stay up through the night to talk with me - his job allowed this). Not long after I booked a...
Quichebarbie
Xper 1 Age: 38 "I've started having obsessive thoughts about my boyfriend's previous relationship. How can I overcome this?
I am going through a period where I feel incredibly mentally sensitive. I find myself constantly crying over this issue; my tears just won't stop. I love my boyfriend deeply. He is my first love, but I am not his....
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I ask about racism correctly?
I'm asking this 'cuz I had a post removed called "Am I racist?" and I'm not sure why it was removed since I didn't receive any notification at all. I thought I worded it without crossing any lines in explaining the way...
RandomGirl42
Guru Age: 26 Am I sabotaging a good man or is he moving too fast and crossing my emotional boundaries?
I’ve been talking to a guy since May. He’s kind, respectful, emotionally available and very serious about me. He openly talks about marriage and a future together. On paper, he’s everything I say I want, a loyal,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is an AI pic the same as real?
Yeah, I know, like, duh, Random, of course it's not the same. But here, my vanity has gotten me into a quandry. I PROMISED I would not post any real pics of me here or anywhere on social media ever again. BUT little Mz...
RandomGirl42
Guru Age: 26 What should I do?
I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month, and honestly, it’s been confusing because he has all the qualities I look for emotionally. He’s sweet, stable, communicative, caring all the things I want in a partner. I’m...
Anonymous
(18-24) Ladies, if a man cries over say his mom died would you cry with him or tell him to man up and be heartless?
As a woman who has real feelings. I cry with my husband when he's vulnerable. I'm not a heartless bitch that says suck it up and leaves him alone.
mrshooiser
Xper 6 Age: 32 What do you think of Genesis saying Asher's food will be rich and he will have royal delicacies?
To me, Jacob is saying, when you concern yourself with the psychological needs, comfort levels and happiness of all people, and not just the feelings of those who are holy, perfect, objective or righteous, and when you...
How bad did I screw up?
I (31m) went on a 5th date with this girl (34f). Everything was going great as usual. We were eating then she suggested going to the lake or watch a movie at her sister's house (where she lives right now). I asked if...
Coyote12
Xper 5 Age: 32 Friend from middle school.. haven't seen or spoke to each other for almost 15 years. He is a good friend to me although I'm afraid of getting a crush?
Hi all, So I'm speaking with a guy that was my best friend in middle school. I've been speaking and exchanging reels on socials for almost a year. We haven't spoken in almost 15 years but he's been the only guy that...
Anonymous
(25-29) A Furious Wake-Up Call: A Message for Women
Hey, women, I’ve been reflecting on this video I watched where a woman was laughing off the male loneliness epidemic as something “made up,” blaming men for being reckless with our lives. It started as just another...
DexWest
Xper 7 Age: 33 Why do I pull away when I actually like a girl, even though I want to connect with her? How can I stop this pattern?
This keeps happening to me, it is a pattern. I don’t play games or flirt, I’ve never needed to. The girls I’ve been with in the past usually made the first move, and things just flowed naturally. But when I really like...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would you keep your partner's embarrassing secret, or would you tell someone?
If your partner had a secret that's totally innocent but they are just embarrassed by (like for example if he listened to "girly" music, or if she practiced her laugh because her real one "sounds weird"). Would you keep...
PretzelBeanie
Xper 4 Age: 25 If someone likes to play in the grey area when it comes to feelings, what would u do.. 🤔?
Play along? Keep waiting? Or cut that person off? 🤨 If that were me, I’d cut them off without a second thought, life’s too short for indecision, games, or half hearted men.. ❌👋🏻 My time, my energy, my heart too...
Anonymous
(30-35) Learn to Let Them Go
This Take is more for women than it is for men. I’m aware there are guys who can't let go of the wrong person, but I still think this issue is by far and large more of a problem with women. Right now I know some women in...
