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This question assumes that you are or have been either married or in a long term relationship in which you both expected your partner to be faithful. I believe that most people respect their promises and remain faithful but not everyone respects their commitment. I am aware of two partners who cheated on me (maybe there were more, but two who were confirmed cheaters) but I have never cheated on anyone, including the two who cheated on me. For me, the primary motivation for faithfulness is self-respect; I want to think of myself as an honorable man. I also try to follow the Golden Rule.

Other people may have other motivations. What makes YOU remain faithful? If none of the responses apply to you, please leave a comment and explain.

I have recently discovered the 5 C's of a relationship, though I'm sure we already use them without knowing about the rule.

How to use the 5 C's.

As a Checklist. Evaluate potential or current partners by seeing if they embody these traits.

As a Growth Tool. Intentionally practice these elements to strengthen your existing relationships.

Commonly Cited 5 C's.

Communication/Closeness: The ability to talk openly, listen actively, resolve misunderstandings, and revealing your true self.

Chemistry: The spark, attraction, and the emotional pull that makes you exited about the person.

Compatibility/Commonality: Shared values, goals, and a sense of fitting well together long term.

Commitment: A conscious decision to stick together through challenges, and build a future.

Compassion/Courtesy/Constructive Conflict: Showing care, and understanding, respect, kindness, appreciation, and managing inevitable issues.