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I've known this one guy since HS, I was a freshman & he was a junior (14 years ago). We went to neighbor high schools but were friends on FB. We were really close or so I felt. He was there for me for my first heartbreak my senior year. During that relationship he confessed his feelings for me. After I graduated we hung out a few times at his place never even kissed but we would cuddle. I liked what we had bc I was afraid if we got into a relationship & we didn't workout then I would lose him as a friend too. He meant a lot to me. 3 years passed & I got into another relationship, this one was toxic & I couldnt talk to him much but when my ex & I got into fights I would reach out to him again. I spent the night at his place once too again nothing happened. Then when I was 2 months pregnant I was in a domestic violence situation with my ex & I had nowhere to go so I reached out to him to stay at his place but this time he said no. he was very cold with me. I was so hurt I removed him from socials and didn't speak to him for years. Another 3 years passed & I moved an hour away. He reached out to me wanting to know about my life & if BD was in the picture. He is not. This time he was in a 2y long relationship. I told him I was hurt because he didn't help me when I needed him. he said it was because he was mad at me for being with someone else & having their baby. I mentioned to him I was moving out of state soon so he suggested we meet one last time & said he could drive the hour to me. I said no & used the excuse that we were still freshly into the pandemic. He added me on social media again & then about a year later removed me. I don't know why. So I messaged him & asked if what I posted had offended him, he said no & that was it. But actually it wasn't I figured since that was the end of our friendship I told him I had had feelings for him previously & the reason I never spoke up about it, that I also felt he was all wishy washy with me. (Continued below)

Hi! I want to start off with a little background, my friend ( let’s call him K ) and i have known each other since we were kids (10+ years) and are very close. I met his wife ( let’s call her F ) on their wedding day and since have become pretty good friends with her as well i’d say. Him and his wife have been married for just about 1y and a half, and have been together for almost 2y. Now this might be a little hard to keep up with so bare with me please, my issue is that my mother is good friends with F’s ex coworker and saw they were hiring but when I told my mother I was reluctant to work there because of things F had told me, F’s ex coworker told my mother that F left there due to drama she had caused because her coworkers knew she was married yet she had been sleeping with one of the cooks, along with other personal things. I was completely shocked to hear this because i didn’t think F would do something like this. On the other hand, F and I have never hung out without K present, sure we text every so often but I really don’t know much about her besides what I’ve seen when she’s with K. So i’ve been sitting here, extremely conflicted, because i don’t know whether to tell K or not. I don’t have really any solid evidence so even if I do say anything would he believe me? I would really appreciate any kind of advice.