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Search Results: guilt and shame
What is your opinion on radical vegans?
So the reason why I'm asking this question is not to throw shade on vegans who are respectful to everyone and decide to live their life according to how they want to, but the ones who guilt and shame people who use...
Datboi65
Xper 7 Age: 24 Pain helps you grow: Why heartbreak heals!
You never think it will happen to you but the reality is at some point in your life you will experience heartbreak. Whether it's your girlfriend dumps you, your husband cheats on you, your dog dies or you and your best...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is this awful experience going to affect my future relationships?, how can I fix it so I can find better relationships?
Last year, an old flame contacted me, we kept in contact online, but things got awry and at some point we became intimate although just two times and just online. However, he is married, and even though I have tried to...
Anonymous
(36-45) How can I recover from this?, due to this experience I will repeat the same pattern?
During the pandemic, I got in contact online with an old flame, just to talk about the old times, and things were pacific and good for a time, we were like friends. But as time passed by, things became more closer...
Anonymous
(36-45) What am I if I am not a nice guy or a bad boy?
I might give off the initial appearance of being a nice guy but only because I am quiet and give respect until I don't get it. I honestly don't care about almost anyone. I don't get attached to people. I won't give more...
Anonymous
(25-29) I hurt a friend badly out of jealousy. She never wants to see me again. How do I forgive myself?
I was always jealous of my perfect friend the two years we became friends. The jealousy just built up and up, and I ended up taking it out on her and did something really bad, I ended up sabotaging her job and she got...
Anonymous
(25-29) How Racism Works: My Path to Ongoing Recovery and How I became Infected with Racist Beliefs
Before I explain to you how racism works or what led me to becoming a racist person, I want to introduce myself. I am a political science major with a minor in Interntional affairs. I am a perfectionist that suffers from...
Anonymous
(25-29) Help! Giving my boyfriend hard time due to anxiety disorder?
Hi all, I am together with my boyfriend for a year. He;s been absolutely amazing and supportive. When I met him he was going through OCD and anxiety and was recovering from an episode due to overdose. We both came clean...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do I feel so dirty and guilty when in a relationship?
I don't really know how to explain this, but I'll try. I love love, I want it and the thought of it makes me smile, but when someone offers to give me it I feel disgusting. I feel awful, dirty, I feel like a wh0re, a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Weird mother/son dynamic noticed after marriage? what would you do?
Im 29 female with a 30y. o male we live together and 10 years later got engaged I was friendly with his whole family even going to church together and caring for their children helping them move and everything.. the guys...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is suppressing traumatic memories common with PTSD?
i keep getting flashbacks of the sexual assault incident and it really affects me. i was in middle school when this happened and he was my close friend who was son of my parents friends. he sexually assaulted me and...
Anonymous
(18-24) Masks: The good, the bad, and the ugly.
I know that 'masks' seems like a dirty word after over 2 years of being locked down by a pandemic, but I promise that this MyTake isn't going to be talking about the N95 kind of masks, not entirely anyway, so those...
Ez-Bri-Z
Editor Age: 46 Do you recognize when you feel guilt and shame when OTHERS are in the wrong by abusing you?
I recently realized that what stopped me from taking action or getting angry at abusers like bullies or selfish people was that I would feel some sort of guilt or shame for the treatment. Maybe i was identifying with them...
Eileen753
Xper 1 Age: 30 What would you think if you got ghosted by the same guy?
Before I begin here, I'd like to say I was once hurt that I got ghosted. I understand people make mistakes, and I somehow thought this guy made a mistake. Him telling me how much it hurt him that he ghosted. Whether that...
Anonymous
(25-29) What’s holding conservatives back from being more politically active?
There has been a growing backlash (and rightfully so) for the past few years. But mainstream conservatives just aren’t as good at organizing and mobilizing the same way liberals do. My theory it’s a combination of the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Some reasons why victims have a hard time leaving their abuser, or reasons why some people seek abusive partners...
* Buckle up, this is going to be fairly long and full of information. * Hi, I'm sure you've seen me around or read my opinions I have posted on some questions, I have talked briefly about my past experiences. That is one...
Why failure is nothing to be ashamed of
Bill Gates said it’s more important to heed the lessons of failure then it is to celebrate success. I can find, I failed multiple times by embarrassing myself while trying to serve God. But each mistake I made taught me...
Is it ok to feel as lonely as I do?
Now, this is kind of a dumb question, I know. But I believe that I (as a dude) should be strong and in tune with my emotions. So imagine my surprise when I get hit with the worst emotional low this side of Mississippi....
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you think J. of Nazareth message was needed?
It's His birthday . He was raised and educated to believe he was on a mission to save people, his name means "Yahweh saves". He gave a solution to what ailes us. He reached out to the poor of spirit, broken down,...
How God took away my shame
As a kid, I felt shame a dozen times a day cause my parents would both yell at me and tell me I was stupid or ugly or masculine or fat or weird and I was socially awkward at school leading to harassment by bullies and...
