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How can I get over my fear of dating?

I'm 24, f & never had a boyfriend/ went on a date with a guy. I grew up overweight and got bodyshamed since the age of 10/11. My self confidence is still very low bc of that. When I was 19, I lost a lot of weight &...
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How do I just stop having feelings for anyone ever?

it just brings stress and insecurity into my life
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What is your secret toxic trait?

If I had to pick one, it’s my ability to turn my emotions off like a light switch. It’s not something I’m proud of, but it can be destructive if triggered. I live my life grounded in facts, logic, and structure....
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Is a girl who is too materialistic a red flag?

Having nice things and money isn’t a red flag on its own. But a woman whose obsessed with trends and designer things it screams insecurity. She needs to show her value through material things. Also, if she has nothing to...
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Why did he body shame me after sex?

I made a post about my boyfriend body shaming yesterday. U can read it before this. Anyways I said how upset I was. He said after sex how much easier it would be to be thin. That me being on top hurts him. He has said...
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Is my hair even possible of growing back anymore?

A while back, I struggled with thinning edges on one side because I used to relax my hair a lot out of insecurity. Recently in May of 2025, I had a quick weave hairstyle in, and when I took it down, my edges had grown...
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What I am experiencing? How to stop this insecurity?

I'm a light-skinned Black girl with a skin tone similar to Nicki Minaj’s. My skin used to be lighter, but I’ve gotten darker from spending a lot of time in the sun. Sometimes, darker-skinned Black people act as if I’ll be...
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Would you marry a girl that isn’t a v*rgin?

For me if a girl has given herself to any other guy it’s a red flag. She would have to be truly phenomenal to ‘erase’ that at least for me. Why would anyone want their partner to have been with another person I will...
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For me if a girl has given herself to any other guy it’s a red flag. She would have to be truly phenomenal to ‘erase’ that at least for me. Why would anyone want their partner to Show More
I only want v*rgins
I don’t mind
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Have you been motivated to enhance your home security lately?

There have been numerous factors that has motivated to beef up my home security lately. We recently evicted a hostile tenant who rented the downstairs (our home is setup like a duplex) We have had "apartment cities"/mass...
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There have been numerous factors that has motivated to beef up my home security lately. We recently evicted a hostile tenant who rented the downstairs (our home is setup like a duplex) Show More
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Is it normal behaviour?

Hi. So I have a situation right now and I’m not sure what to do with it. I had a project to do with a guy. He talks a lot in class but always present. We did the project and everything was fine. Then 2 weeks later, we had...
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Why things not go sexually?

Please my female friends answer this I am 23 . Why things don't go sexually with woman I feel attracted. Let me share you my story what happened I was at railway station with my friend. A girls was giving me eye...
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"I've started having obsessive thoughts about my boyfriend's previous relationship. How can I overcome this?

I am going through a period where I feel incredibly mentally sensitive. I find myself constantly crying over this issue; my tears just won't stop. I love my boyfriend deeply. He is my first love, but I am not his....
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How would you handle this situation? I'm trying to move on?

My guy friend and I had been friends for 4+ years (our relationship became complicated) when he decided that he was going to date my friend after we had gotten close basically dating but he never asked me out and tried to...
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What is this shit?

"From 1979 to 2003 there were at least 27 wads of blue ice [big] enough to tear through roofs, smash cars, one even took out a church in England," - From the article: "So a frozen ball of poop fell from the sky — should...
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What is the probability of becoming a crazy, old cat lady?

This question is brought to you by the creeping insecurities that gnaw at me late at night as I lay under the covers after another busy day of spreading the joy that is me across social media platforms for all my adoring...
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How do you get when splitting up?

I get that we can all get a little crazy, that's only natural, stress, anger, grief, you name it, but as for me I see a pattern of those I gave up on that they got 50% angry, wanting to take charge, control, maybe...
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Do women use the word insecurity incorrectly?

If you criticise anything a women does, wears and behaves many girls label that insecure. When really you just have standards and don’t accept bullshit from people who don’t take accountability for their decisions....
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If you criticise anything a women does, wears and behaves many girls label that insecure. When really you just have standards and don’t accept bullshit from people who don’t take Show More
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Do you thinking blocking people just because they have different political opinions than you is a sign of strength or insecurity?

Some guy who posted about the new NYC mayor just blocked me because I did not agree with his opinion. I think it's a sign of insecurity. What do you think?
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Some guy who posted about the new NYC mayor just blocked me because I did not agree with his opinion. I think it's a sign of insecurity. What do you think? Show More
It is sign of strength. His political opinions are so correct, he does not need to demonstrate their justness in debate.
It's a sign of weakness and insecurity. Deep down inside he knows some of his political opinions may be flawed, but he just keeps suppressing doubts.
Ummm... I need to know what his political opinions are first! If they are like mine, it's strength. If they are different, it's weakness.
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Do you believe patriarchy exists in your country?

All I know is beauty standards are created by constant exposure to social media and capitalism to fuel our insecurities so we can spend more money to look a certain way. I’m not sure if it’s tied to the patriarchy. I’m...
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