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Why do I feel like I’ll be alone forever and never truly loved?

'Life is pain' It just hurts, no one understands how desperately I need love. I have tried all the ways to keep my mind out of love or relationship or just someone. I never felt wanted and now it's a burden
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She said I’d be a great father but a bad boyfriend—what does that mean?

This girl who said that, we had a pretty beautiful date. We went to the park together, and sat in the good sun. I played with white flowers, and put them in her hair... we also went and got chocolates and treats....
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Why does this site feel dominated by misogynistic, woman-hating men?

Don't get me wrong I've spoken to some amazing men on this site who are open to honest and civil discussions but I've come to have a love hate relationship with this site manly because a lot of the men on this site are so...
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Why do some people think there is unconditional love in relationships?

As much as I love my dear husband and he's a great father to our 11 month-old baby boy, there are obvious boundaries and limits that should never be crossed. Loving a partner or spouse unconditionally wouldn't be healthy...
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I think dating apps are helping me as much as they’re hurting?

I’ve been out of the dating game for pretty much my whole life. I’ve been working so hard just to get my money right and up to a livable place. So it was to the point, up until now basically, that I just didn’t feel like...
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What actually gives you closure after someone hurts you… getting even, or genuinely letting go?

You hear people say forgiveness sets you free… but others feel like closure only comes after justice is served. What actually gives you closure when someone you love hurts you deeply?
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You hear people say forgiveness sets you free… but others feel like closure only comes after justice is served. What actually gives you closure when someone you love hurts you Show More
I forgive and let go
I move on… but I never forget
It depends on how deeply I was hurt
Getting even gives me closure
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As a trans woman, how do I cope with feeling so hated and dehumanized?

It bothers me so much how hated I am and it always has. Cis women are so lucky they get to be beautiful and feminine and loved. They never have to feel like they’re monsters. I transitioned at age 14 in 2008 in East...
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Am I wrong for ignoring a male coworker after he was rude and apologized?

I feel hurt but it’s like to the point where I don’t feel like being the same I was before with him should I move on or do something about it bc I actually kinda feel bad now
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How can I cope when a favorite autistic student says they hate me?

We work with students on the autism spectrum. One of my students that I absolutely adore, refused to do his work and expects us to do it for him. He missed out on recess because he had to do his work. He was getting...
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How do you know when dating effort is healthy vs trying too hard?

Breaking up in the early stages of dating isn’t personal to either person or at least shouldn’t be to those who are mature it may hurt at times. But when you reach a point whether you’re male or female… Where it feels...
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2 mo

Is this true or?

So my dog likes to counter surf a lot and been trying to teach him not to. I had made bagels this morning and I just finished them and he tried to get them but I quickly pushed him away (not hard or anything) I had to act...
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What advice can I give unloved friend?

I love my friend to death so seeing her so crushed hurts me so bad. she's 38f and im 40m She has a boyfriend with who she has a one year old and a three year old. They’ve been together 10+ years. She takes a lot of the...
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Is it just blatantly obvious that he doesn’t care about me or is there possibly another reason?

I dated this guy for 6 months. We’re family friends, so it wasn’t casual. He’s been under a lot of pressure the whole time. He’s building a company, working 12-hour days, constantly dealing with investors and stress....
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How do I cope with always feeling like the runt of my family litter?

I’ve been feeling really upset and overwhelmed with my family lately. There’s a long-standing pattern where I often feel left out, dismissed, or treated differently compared to my sisters. Things have been building...
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Should I hook up with a coworker who wants to cheat on his girlfriend?

This guy at work i had a crush on- mentioned he had a girlfriend and then continued hitting on me and suggesting cheating w me on her! He and his girlfriend are in long distance relationship- they haven't met in over a...
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How do I let go of my child’s father who relapsed on meth?

My sons father is a drug addict, i recently found out he relapsed and is now on meth therefore I had to make a hard decision to leave him. He’s staying at a extended stay and when we talk he doesn't even talk to me the...
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Have you ever been ghosted after a really good date?

Have you ever went out with someone had a really good time, made plans to see them again. Talked to them after the date that night untill you both fall asleep. Then the next day get ghosted? Is this a good or bad thing in...
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Is it normal to still feel hurt by childhood trauma despite a happy marriage?

Even though I'm happily married and we have our son, once in a while I feel hurt over past childhood traumas. It still happened and I think no amount of money nor trips will erase that. I got emotionally bullied and...
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What was the last thing you ate, what time was it? How do you feel about your decision?

It's midnight, I was about to go to sleep. Then I got up, emptied an entire tuppaware of mashed potatoes, added a plate of breaded chicken, microwaved it with a damp paper towel covering it and ate about 1Lb of food. I...
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