Search Results: things to consider in a boyfriend

Girls, Would you be ok with your boyfriend keeping his ex wife's clothes?

Looking for advice My boyfriend I've been with since 2022. He still has his ex wife's clothes and wedding dress. They split in 2018 didn't divorce until 2021 and she died a few months later. He's tried to give me her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it safe to say this relationship is over and how should I handle it?

Last week my boyfriend ignored me for 4 days in which I assumed he was ghosting me but I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt that he was going through something mentally. By the 4th day I was fed up because one...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Tell feelings, ask on a date, or both?

There is a woman I've known online for a few years. I was introduced to her online gaming group by a buddy of mine. I stopped hanging out with the group though because I realized I had feelings for her and her boyfriend...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Sometimes I can't stand my boyfriend, what should I do?

We don't have big fights, but he often does things that hurt or annoy me to the point where I don't want to be around him. He considers me his best friend, but I can't see him that way. When I'm happy or sad, I share my...

suzzy

Xper 5 Age: 47

Is my ex trying to keep me there for when he wants me or is he being genuine when he says we could get back together in the future?

My ex boyfriend and I were together for 3 years, lived together with friends. We mutually broke up in March due to communication, mental health, and me moving 3.5 hours away, temporarily. Not even 5 days after we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend keeps threatening to break up with me?

It has happened multiple times where we fight he makes comments at the end of each fight. For example, I had suggested that we take some space for 2 or 3 days to cool off the hurt, but he says "Ill try and remember to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How many people have you slept with that you find out afterwards they are married or in a relationship already?

Sadly this happens to me on occasion, the only reason I allow it to happen? , is because I no longer give a flying fuck about a girls’ relationship status cuz most girls’ lie anyways. I enjoy mingling with people and...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Do therapists tell people when they’re being abusive?

Hello everyone. Recently, my boyfriend has not been treating me well (talking harshly to me, talking bad about me to others, making me sad and not apologizing, etc.). He said he wanted to go to therapy because he finds me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Advice needed about this. Should I consider this as a sign?

There is this girl I met half a year ago. She had problems in uni, and through a mutual friend, I started helping her (for free from the start). When I "accepted" to help her, I did not know anything (not even gender) it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Should I end the friendship over this?

R and I have been friends for 8 years, since senior year. We lived together after graduation and now for the past 4 years we’ve been inseparable. We hang out in all our free time, at least once a week. Our kids love each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I deal with the feeling that I ruined my chances to potentially be with a great guy?

I say potentially because I'm only 80% sure he liked me but the signs were there. I've started falling for my coworker after we had some great conversations and I realized he's basically male version of me but when I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it possible that my boyfriend may have actually fallen for the other woman he cheated on me with?

I stayed after finding out my boyfriend was messing around with some chick he works with. I saw messages between them and he swore to me things would stop etc etc. Weeks have gone by and he and this girl have done...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do men cheat, then ask for another chance?

Hello, why do men cheat and then ask for forgiveness? I've been with my boyfriend for five years. In the first year, he cheated, asked for forgiveness, and I took him back. Throughout the years, we’ve had ups and downs...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you guys think I did too much and was too hard on the girl?

I found out that my boyfriend was messing with a girl he works with. They have done many things together including have sex at his home, which I consider my home as well because he is my boyfriend. He was even planning a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I had an argument with my girlfriend. Am I wrong for not seeing it her way?

I made a point about how girls are doing nothing in dating to actually try and get a boyfriend themselves like a go getter would and that girls are waiting for miracles to happen and for a boyfriend to land on girls laps....

Unit1

Editor Age: 31

I made a point about how girls are doing nothing in dating to actually try and get a boyfriend themselves like a go getter would and that girls are waiting for miracles to happen and

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How do I break things off with my boyfriend of four months without mentioning his faults to him?

I'm learning that My boyfriend (30) I'm 28, has a long history of work instability. He just quit his job of two years without a backup plan. He also tends to be impulsive with his decisions. I'm very concerned that he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Was asking for intimate photos a good decision?

A little over a month ago I met an African woman, we started chatting, it was not the best way to do it and especially with the immense distance that separated us, but I wanted to meet her; problem, she spoke a language...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this considered narcissistic?

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and one of the things I notice he does is he loves to say things that upset me to get a reaction out of me. I admit I can be quite a jealous person and he knows that...

Anonymous

(18-24)