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It seems that more than ever, the commands of Jesus are seen as signs of weakness: loving your enemies, forgiving those who trespass against you, blessing those who curse you, doing good to those who hate you, and praying for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience are all signs of weakness in today's society.

Society praises politicians, athletes, and entertainers who lash out and insult those who they think disrespected them. Bragging is seen as a sign of strength. If someone wrongs you, you're supposed to lash out and shame them, not forgive them. Twitter feuds, political feuds, bragging etc are all accepted as normal today.

Is being a good Christian a sign of weakness/wussiness?

I made a point about how girls are doing nothing in dating to actually try and get a boyfriend themselves like a go getter would and that girls are waiting for miracles to happen and for a boyfriend to land on girls laps. I also pointed out how they'll start going into "boyfriend hunt mode" as soon as they encounter a top 10% man or a rich guy.

This is of course highly stereotypical of me considering my continued absence of interactions with people and especially girls to the point it is causing destructive effects to myself. I can feel disappointed of myself for myself but I am self-aware of this drawback of mine, so there's no point to feel disappointed. My girlfriend responded as follows:

I think she's crying now 🙁 she didn't even turn her eyes red this time. I believe I have pucked up this time and just now realize how what i said actually hurts the ladies. Interestingly Andrew Tate has repeatedly said the same things too.