Search Results: not feel so hurt

Guys: if you wanted to take things slow, what does that mean to you?

I (38f) have been dating my boyfriend (49M) For about 5 1/2 months now. Although we’ve known each other for about a year. long story short, he’s very wishy-washy with his affection. We have never had sex or done anything...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Why can’t my girlfriend and I communicate?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over 2 years, and have lived together since a year and a half. Over time I feel like more and more issues have been coming up from her. And resolving those issues has proven...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I cheated on my boyfriend what should I do now?

I feel very ashamed but I dont want to tell him the truth and hurt him. And I can't contunie the relationship like nothing happened because this guilt eats me alive. What can I do for his best?

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have a friend who calls and texts regularly and always tells me he’s not looking for anything serious but then he likes to date around?

The thing is the way that he describes a date is a “hang out” I am not sure if he’s choosing the wrong wording or if he has other intentions set.2 nights ago he called and asked if I missed my family, if I have a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Did I do the right thing by ending things since there was no date follow up?

Me and this guy were talking, it was going well. I think he’s a real nice guy for sure. I told him to let me know tomorrow afternoon (which is today) on plans where to go on our date this evening. But I was really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend sleeping on couch for a month?

a month ago I discovered my boyfriend went to a strip club. He lied about it, but I know it’s true. He didn’t deny it either. I asked if he just watched the show or got a lap dance. He did not respond. Since then, he has...

AmySP

Xper 1 Age: 51

How do you know when its time to let go of a relationship?

For the past 2 years I’ve been in long distance with a man who I love and who loves me too. We’ve used to always be each others rock. He used to look at me and be able to see right through me. Now I’m not so sure anymore....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Thinking about turning myself in to the police for cyber harassing a man. how to I cope?

Thinking about turning myself in to the police for cyber harassing a man I went on a date with a year ago.. how to cope? He caused me a lot of emotional pain and I know that it’s my responsibility to heal myself… but I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

“I feel accused of something I didn’t do, and it’s making me consider leaving the relationship. How can I address this with my partner?”?

I’ve been in this relationship for a while, and we have a 5-year-old daughter. On Saturday, I took her to the mall to buy items for a picnic planned for the next day with her and her mom. While there, we bumped into...

Greeneazy

Xper 1 Age: 43

Education & Career

How did you know what you wanted to do in your life?

I'm so badly stuck with this thing and my future is scaring me way too much. I really don't know what I want to do in future and I don't even know if I love the subjects I chose for 11th grade. I just have one more year...

Apulu_backagain

Xper 7 Age: 17

Am I just being played by the married man?

So we had a 10 year emotiol affair, we was best friends and spoke daily. 2 years ago it became sexual, but wasn’t a regular thing. Since the sex was added in he pulled away slowly with the emotional stuff, and eventually...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I in the wrong for this?

I've been with this man for almost three years now and we have a handsome 1 year old together. Just recently, we've had an argument after he kept bringing up other men and kept bringing up the fact that another man he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is wrong with me if guys only talk to me because I look like their ex?

My God! This is like the freaking third time because I barely like to talk to men or go out. They always end up looking like me or I look like them. My hair is blonde and I want to die my hair so bad but at the same...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Opinions and advice needed! But what should I do?

So I am going all in with this guy I really like and he knows I like him, he says he likes me back but it's not romantic nor is he interested in dating anybody right now, unless it's this chick who he hasn't seen in over...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it ok for a man to propose with the same ring his ex girlfriend declined or would you be upset too?

My friend has been with her boyfriend for 2 years and they've been engaged for 4 months. She recently discovered that he didn't really buy it. It was the same ring he proposed to his ex girlfriend way back in 2019, whom...

ChicanaChick

Xper 6 Age: 28

What does it mean when a man says he has feelings for you but that he doesn’t love you?

I’ve been seeing a guy for around 2 years, 6 months ago I felt him distancing from me, this worried me and I relised I loved him. I confronted him and told him I felt love for him, his reply was “I don’t love you, I’m...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Every time I try to end it with him he tells me to “just chill out”?

He makes me feel disrespected and dismissed. I like him as he has some good qualities, but he hurts me sometimes. When I try to talk about my feelings he says I’m crazy and dismissed it as I’m “overthinking”. He mentioned...

Anonymous

(25-29)