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People cheat. Sometimes people cheat on good people for almost no reason. Most people will bend the internal morality of their actions around their wants and desires. People will swear on their grandmothers grave they’d never sleep with somebody after meeting them once, and then shock themselves by sleeping with THAT person when they eventually encounter them.

Love is essentially transactional, not just monetarily but emotionally and physically. Sometimes people just don’t want to be with you any more. Looks are a MASSIVE part of attraction. Comfort kills attraction. Your partner is not yours, it’s just your turn.(MOST relationships will end sooner or later). Most people believe they’re more righteous and principled than they are. Morality has nothing to do with arousal. Both genders are struggling to find fulfilling partners because one side has grown weak and one side is now free to select for what they want which is the best of the best. Certain immutable traits are key. Most relationships after a couple of years are routine and not sexually fulfilling. People are nowhere near as unique in their behaviour as they think they are.

Is everyone out there trying to use, break hearts and cheat? NO. Most human beings are very much looking and trying consciously to attain and build the perfect, unconditional, long lasting loving relationship. That’s their conscious motive. But life is life and it truly hits people harder and at weirder angles than they could possibly have anticipated. Good sweet innocent people surprise themselves. The righteous fall. Most are not as strong or as selfless as they think. Those who believe they deserve the world can only actually attain very little. There is no such THING as deserve, there is, isn’t, won’t, will and can and can’t.

To simply DENY all this stuff is a product of either lack of exposure or choosing to deny. Which is fine.

So I have two really good chairs at work. One, I brought from home, and the other I actually ordered myself online. I was using the older chair until the new one arrived and then, I put my older chair in the break room.

Both chairs are not cheap; they are large high-end "board executive" chairs, which in US currency, would be about $150. But the older one was used and someone gave it to me. The older chair was in the break room and I still used it, about every other day, although the break room is mostly empty.

Today, some coworker dude took my chair. I had to track it down and found it in his classroom. This is a teacher from another department, who teaches high schoolers, so even though we work in the same place, I don't even know this guy's name.

I confronted him about it, and he said he asked our boss about it, who didn't know who it belonged to (which is accurate; he's too busy to know such things) before taking it, assuming it "belonged to no one" or an old coworker who was no longer here. I told him it was mine, and he could use it, but to just make sure not to break it or mistreat him.

However, I don't really want him using my sh*t. There are MANY different chairs in here, most of which are simple student wooden chairs. There's also some basic blue office chairs in here too, which are kind of crap. And some used office chairs.

The chair is already kinda old, so I think he'll end up breaking it.

But it's also a spare chair, as I bought a newer one in October. I still used it in the break room, but that's not all that important.

And he didn't ask to use it, although that may have just been ignorance on his part. But there are literally other chairs he could use around here, just none as nice.

How should I handle this admitted first-world problem?

This was the initial twitter quote that started it off

You can’t call yourself an alpha male and have an Asian wife

— *⋆ 🎀 евелина 🎀 ⋆* (@soviethoneytrap) December 17, 2022

For those who can't see. The user said this "You can’t call yourself an alpha male and have an Asian wife". And this is coming from a white female.

Some of the highlighted replies

"All Asian women are mid and generally the white men who go after them are mediocre themselves."

"Delusional. Asians are bigger sl*ts and goldoggers than white women they literally fuck everything that's white and has money."

"AFAIK people can date whoever they want. Don’t act like your women don’t throw themselves at White men like it’s the end of the world though. Being together with an Asian as a White male is incredibly easy"

"White guys bragging about how they’re super mediocre & no one even looks at their direction in their countries but in Asia the women incessantly approach them because they’re white etc.. it’s a documented phenomenon"

"Another point: the low-quality of some (many?) of our women, has driven white men to date Latinas and Asian girls, who will, most of the time, treat them better than the white girls who they’ve dated prior. Not saying it’s good, not saying it’s bad; it’s just how it is."

"True story! White men with Asian women = last resort because you weren’t man enough to find a woman on your own level! It is fine if you want to resort to that measure, I don’t mind, but you will always be a soy boy beta male!"

Same sentiment can be seen on white dominated websites such as bodybuilding. com/misc where many users have said in the past that other white guys usually look down upon white males who date Asians.