Search Results: not feel so hurt

I wished my ex birthday but Im still hurt for what he did and didn't get proper closure, should I let it out before no contact again?

We broke up since June this year. He hurt me with harsh words in the end. He didn't even apologize and reach out to me within months. But I still love and care about him. His birthday I wished : Happy Birthday. Wherever u...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did my etc call me a weirdo for this reason?

Basically me and ex still work together and have been broken up since Feb, we tried to be friends but the whole time he just made me feel crap and would say things like I’m dumb (which when I said I didn’t like it his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I weird for this or is my friend giving me bad advice?

I’m posting this anonymously in case she’s on here. I’ve tried being straightforward about this, but I have a friend who means well, but has a tendency to butt herself into her friends dating lives. My last relationship...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Is this just a coincidence or something that happens with people emotionally hurt?

So I saw somewhere in a video that the guy said (joking or serious) the best way to get over being heartbroken is to find a good person get them attached and break them then you’ll feel better. Me personally that’s evil...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I tell him he hurt me?

My boyfriend works out of town for 3 weeks at a time and comes home for a weekend. The issue is that he gets dropped off at a shop and then visits with his mom on Fridays. Instead of coming home after seeing her he stays...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, He complains that we’re not having sex, but when I want to have it I always get rejected?

We have a unique situation. We met in July, he dumped in August then came back in October then wanted a second chance in October (which I stupidly gave him and now I’m questioning why since now he’s starting to pull...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I kiss her unexpectedly or not?

I good friend of mine is moving away. I probably will never see her again, and that thought really kills me. I have 1 week before she moves away. She is currently with her bestie to say her goodbyes for the weekend. She...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He ruined my life… why am I not allowed to ruin his?

Why was it okay for him to disrespect my boundaries regarding sex… to make someone feel safe in the beginning just to be hurtful and bring up things that I didn’t want I feel triggered by his actions because of things...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why was it okay for him to disrespect my boundaries regarding sex… to make someone feel safe in the beginning just to be hurtful and bring up things that I didn’t want I feel

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What's wrong with me?

I feel like a problematic person, I can't build meaningful relationships with people, I mean I don't socialize, I don't mingle. I don't think I have social anxiety, because when I need to ask someone something I can ask...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I feel really lost and I don’t know what to do?

I’ve been in a relationship for four years since I’m 17. I’m having a really hard time leaving my boyfriend after I found out he cheated on me for the second time. Our relationship is really confusing because he really...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Going no contact with dismissive avoidant?

My ex of 1.5 years and I had a long distance relationship. The distance and no plans to move in together in the near future put a lot of strain on the relationship. Trust, insecurity, were also part of the problem on both...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my boyfriend wrong for needing reassurance that I won’t cheat back on him?

So my boyfriend of 3 years got caught cheating with his ex. We’re working it out. However, I recently admitted to him that I briefly thought about cheating back as revenge. It was a thought that popped up in the midst of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Why this guy is behaving like this?

So, long story short... This guy is texting me for like 1 year and a half. From my side i dont really fancy him but he's okay, so i text back out of politiness. After one date there was no physical or emotional attraction...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I know if someone will love me for me completely?

I’m surrounded by jerks at work. I have no family or friends. I attract guys who don’t really like me or love me. I usually get put down by men and I’m not sure why. But it really hurts me so much and my world is on...

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