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She moved into my house 9 months ago with her kiddo. She sends other guys nudes and sleeps with other guys, and then lies about it to my face. I cover rent, electric, bought her a car, constantly carry her financially on her other expenses, and look after her dogs, but she won't even as much as send me a dirty picture or give me cuddles... has barely been home theast couple of months, staying at a friend's house an hour or so away try I ng to make money doing door dash and the like.

I'm not really getting anything out of it, we've been friends for years but I'm starting to feel taken advantage of... I'm seriously considering telling her to take her dogs and go elsewhere.

I just had another woman lie to me about wanting to meet up for a date but kept making excuses at the last second to bail. This went on for a few weeks.

But she kept texting me to chat. And we texted a lot. It was clean chat too and not sexting.

I was patient at first but finally after three weeks I said “I need to know if we are going to meet up or not” (politely). She said she definitely wanted to meet up and then when I said “okay can you let me know a good time” and she went silent. She only said “happy 4th” and I said happy 4th back but then I deleted her number. Haven’t heard from her sense.

Anyway she just wanted virtual/text attention for validation despite telling me in the beginning she would be interested in friends with benefits. Yes I met her on dating app but we were both verified and she was local. I am a bit older so I was patient at first. But it turned out to be a huge waste of time and she had to lie about wanting to meet up just because she didn’t want me to stop texting her.

But this crap happens a lot to guys nowadays. Just curious if women have any lingering guilt/regrets about doing this to them later. I doubt they do tbh.