Search Results: casual sex

Is there point when a serial monogamist is really no different than friends with benefits?

Both end up with nothing serious in the end, just the wording ''boyfriend and girlfriend'' to make it sound better. They're just another temporary person that'll be ditched too. If someone has a bunch of relationships...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Were we just fucking?

I went out with a guy for 7 months, we were very sexually compatible, shared similar interests, and went on many dates within this time, but he never introduced me to anyone. He had great manners but felt cold and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Advice Needed Updated from my question about whether to get attached to someone who only wants to keep things casual, what do to do now?

So similar to my last question about getting attached to someone who only wants things casual. We've done quite a bit together (hangout, work, college, sex, etc.) For an update, we did talk about it and he said he does...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I let myself get too attached to someone who may only want casual sex?

For reference, we work together at a livestock exchange and go to college together. He's 22 and I'm 18 if that matters. We hangout pretty often outside of work and just had sex for the first time together the other day. I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why did he act like that if he wasn’t interested?

Been dating/seeing a guy for only a short few weeks, from the start he was lovely. We had a few dates and we would talk about everything and anything for hours. He seemed quite open about his life, family and asked a lot...

Stacey248

Xper 1 Age: 41

A guy is leaving me on delivered recently for hours, i’ve been talking to him 2 months? He isn't chasing anymore?

Hi guys, So i met this guy (white, age 24, and im south Asian brown and 24 as well) on hinge and met him the same day, we had beer and hooked up that night. It was pretty casual, we both had wanted do just hookup that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

A question to black women?

With the black vote always going overwhelmingly Democrat and them seeming to want more social programs on masse even though per capita both black women and men are long term net negatives on an economic balance sheet when...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you you think of my diary post today?

I've added/hidden bits for anonymity or context Today feels like a haze of frustration and exhaustion. The past few days have left me feeling a bit flat, like I'm carrying around the weight of too many inconsistent...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

Girl's Behavior

Men, what does this mean to you? if a woman tells you this before exchanging number? how would you respond?

Before we even exchanged numbers I tell you : I’m not looking for anything casual or serious. I’m protecting my emotional wellbeing at all cost and don’t want to be used. My emotional safety is important right now …I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he considered a predator worth being exposed?

I made it clear to this man from the beginning that I wasn’t looking for anything casual or serious due to my past experiences. He initially seemed understanding and gained my trust, which led me to develop feelings for...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I made it clear to this man from the beginning that I wasn’t looking for anything casual or serious due to my past experiences. He initially seemed understanding and gained my trust,

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I feel lonely. How do I stop it turning me into a horrible negative person?

I' feel jealous of the guy i like cuddling his girlfriend at night. I feel fed up of putting on an act of positivity for casual sex guys. I just want to give and receive love and companionship. And not online! There's...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

Girl's Behavior

Was I dating a psychopath? Help me identify?

Inhighschol I had a crush on her. Would follow her or go near her class to meet. She would often ignore me. I couldn't get hold of her as she had no friends and all her friends were from different parts of the city....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would a guy try so hard to persuade me for sex early on when I’m looking for something serious and he knows that?

So he’s made out he’s looking for something serious and long term too. However he talks about sex a lot & mentioned how if a girl doesn’t give him sex men usually find it somewhere else. I have made it clear that i’m open...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a gut block me after I followed him?

It's the guy who i don't talk since April he is an fboy who got scared when he saw I don't want just a casual fling ... I followed him today to see how he will react and he blocked me lol There are rumours he is dating a...

CoolCatMar1

Yoda Age: 22

What do you feel/think when you see an ex hook up or person you had feelings for the first time after a while?

Backstory to this is a had a hookup up with a ex colleague, we had previously been flirting for months when we had worked together, however it ended a bit awkardlt as he kicked me out right after we had slept together ( I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do men actually believe it doesn't count as cheating if he isn't serious about you?

I just found out my boyfriend slept with multiple women 3 months ago. I asked him about it and he said he had been faithful to me since we started talking 7 months ago. When I brought up evidence I found that he cheated 3...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I continue with this casual relationship, or leave it?

I’m at a stage in my life where I don’t feel ready for anything serious. I’ve been enjoying my time with a handsome man, with a beautiful body in a friends with benefits situation. My first time of having sex in 6 years,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Who makes the first move?

Was wondering in a casual dating situation who makes the first move. Should the guy make the first move or suggestion towards sex or do men wait until the women give signs or hints?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)