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I’m 23, but people often think I’m 18 or 19. I get why. My face, my body, and how I behave

I don’t mind having a young-looking face, but my body makes me feel like a child. I’m thin (though I have a bit more fat now, so I look “more like a woman”), small waist, medium butt for my weight, and small boobs. I’m petite but not short, I’m 5'5

I’m also not sexy at all. I know I’m not hot. Nothing about how I move, talk, or act feels “sexy"

I also behave younger. The way I speak and my mannerisms, like sitting with my legs swinging if they don’t reach the floor, probably add to that. So I can’t fully blame my appearance

I don’t think I’m ugly; I think I’m pretty (not gorgeous or hot, just pretty). But I don’t feel very “womanly”

I’m not into casual dating or sleeping around. I’ve only been with one guy, and I don’t see more than one person at a time

I just feel like most guys won't take me seriously. The way I approach dating feels kind of “childish”

Could guys keep up? I don’t like bars or alcohol. I prefer coffee shops. And I wouldn’t sleep with anyone until a lot of months have passed

There’s nothing wrong with that, I know, but I can’t help thinking guys see me as not mature enough because of all these things

My friend complained to me that we always hook her up with fat or chubby guys. You see, she’s a chubby girl herself and she always expects a hottie or a fitness guy. She asked me who do I think she is. I told her, “An ungrateful brat to you friend that tried to hook you up with a sweet guy. I mean it makes sense that you should stick with your league. No offense but a fit guy wouldn’t want to go out with someone that’s….. overweight. Some might, but get real. Hot guys aren’t always great boyfriends. How would I find a hot or fit guy that likes tall fast girls?”
She complained that mine and our other friend’s boyfriends are good looking. I mean we’re fit and slim.
She said fat guys approach her and fit guys ignore her. Do you think I was wrong?