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Hi Guys and Gals!

I came across an article after hanging out with a few friends yesterday.

Reading closely, the article reinforces the idea that on some level we're basically flirting with most people we grow close to... friends as well as folks we consider "relationship material". Hmm. It reminded me of what y'all said reply to a few of my previous behavioral questions:

• How often do you text someone (opp gender) who you're just friends with?
• Why would someone with reductive thought patterns suddenly want to be friends when he doesn't value his interactions with women?
• Be honest, someone writes you a long message/email (1+ page), do you read the whole thing or just skim?
• Girls, Ladies, ever had a friend who claims she "considers you a sister" but is constantly stabbing you in the back?
• Seems one of my guy friends has caught "girl next door" fever... WT* am I supposed to do?
• How do you know if a guy just sees you as a potential "side piece"?
• Go Fish: Do guys "fish" to see if their close female friends are interested even if the gal only sees him as an elder brotherly figure, nothing more?

(It's a lot... those who have time to browse can, those who don't... skip ahead to the poll. I'm just trying to tie a few things together pertaining to a behavioral issue I'm trying to assess and resolve amicably.)

SO...

• Please see which type of flirt you think you are...
• Share the strangest flirtatious comment someone used on you...
• Share your biggest (or most interesting) flirting blooper.

I have a huge crush on a guy at work. We have been talking for a while now and he says good morning to me every single day. There are tonnes of things that he has said/done which make it seem obvious that he is into me. However, I’m not great at reading guys. These two separate interactions stand out to me.

He pretended to trip when he walked towards me. I said, “did you just trip?” And he smiled and said “yeah, I almost fell head over heels into you, I’d have knocked out a tooth”. I then said “please don’t do that” and he said “I will next time”

I asked “are you going to fall into me?” And he smiled and nodded enthusiastically.

In my opinion, his choice of wording seems too oddly specific

Then the other day, I jokingly asked him “why do you hate me so much?” Which was clearly a joke. He paused, looked at the floor and said quietly without smiling “I don’t” and then proceeded to grin and tease me.

Do you think he has feelings for me?

I’m 34 years old female

I’ve had some short relationships but I’ve only had 1 serious relationship for a year and 3 months (mainly long distance but 1st half was in person then the 2nd half was online). Supposedly friends now. I’ve been on other dates since then but no new relationship.

However I am happy being single and living my life to the fullest right now. I don't know if I just need to branch out more. I do volunteering, reading, Zumba, yoga, painting in my free time but some of my friends tell me I should go where there’s a lot of guys.

Dating apps and dating in 2025 in general honestly kind of sucks lately. Maybe I’d have better luck asking family & friends instead?

I’m not going to go into huge detail, but I have a huge crush on a guy at work.

We have been talking since the end of December and as weeks have gone by, our interactions have got slightly more intense.

So something happened today. We were walking towards each other and he was staring at me. He tripped up and stumbled ever so slightly and I said “did you just trip?” And he said

“Yeah, I almost fell head over heels into you, I would have knocked a tooth out”

then I said “please don’t do that” and he said “I will next time”

I asked “are you going to fall into me next time?” And he smiled and nodded enthusiastically.

Maybe I’m reading too much into it but his choice of words felt deliberate “I almost fell head over heels into you”

Is he saying he has feelings for me / is falling for me?