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Again, not meant to be taken seriously. But after my latest take about exes/zodiacs, I’m trying to see something here. I was probably the most physically hurt by a Capricorn and Aries. However, emotionally, I have noticed the heartbreakers tend to end up being the air signs AQUARIUS, GEMINI, LIBRA, and also CANCER and SAGITTARIUS. Anyone else experience this? If you’re not sure of the person’s zodiac sign, tell me their birth month or google it.

My experience-

-Cancers usually have the looks and personality. They could truly be the whole package if they allowed themselves to be. But they seem to fear commitment and I don't know why because they don’t seem like the cheating type. Maybe they just fear getting hurt so they hurt you first.

-Sagittarius will show you in so many ways that they want you. But the problem is they never only want you. You tend to be just one of the people they are after. And if you confront them about it, they will go to the lowest of lows and say the meanest things (or simply shun/ignore/avoid you) just to get out of looking like a player.

-Gemini will be all for you. But they let their insecurities get the best of them. So once you’re ready to give things a go, then suddenly they forgot they wanted to be more than friends.

-Libras are hard to understand. Just like Gemini they are all for you. Just like Sagittarius they show you they want you. Just like Cancer they have the looks and personality. But one day they’re just suddenly not interested for long. I think they miss flirting with others too much and just choose not to commit for the timebeing.

-Aquarius only want company from certain people at certain times. One minute they’re interested and the next they forget to show they still care. They want to commit but question when they should. It will drive you to leave them and then you both end up hurt from the lack of communication and not sharing one another’s love language. #FeelFreeToList

My boyfriend (29) and I (27) were dating for almost 4 years. We lived together in a rental for 3 years. We talked about buying a house and had multiple house viewing. After 6 months one of our offers on a house was accepted. The day before we had to sign the contract he said he can’t do it because he needs to live on his own first. He feels like he missed out on that experience because he went to live with me right out of college. He says he hates himself for it and is embarrassed but it’s just something he needs to do. He found a rental for a year and is planning to move in next week. He says he still loves me and hopes we can be together again after he found himself. Also that he was planning on proposing to me next year but this is just something he has to do. Should I stay around or leave him?

Even with no actual experience I still believe I fall under this category, I wonder if I need to manifest the law of attraction or something even though I do think that’s bs.

You know when you have a gut feeling? I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years, it’s come to the point where I’m not as interested & I swipe on matches/reply to msgs every few days. Dating apps are the only way I’ve tried dating as I dont have a social life but dating apps have been successful for quite a few people I know. I’ve never had a real relationship, I saw someone for a few months maybe 5 years ago & something told me after I saw him that’d I’d be single for a long time. With him it felt like settling & I refuse to ever be with someone that made me feel like that again.

I had to use dating apps bc I’m not very friendly & I don’t get approached in person. I’m told I’m cute/attractive & I will say I have a very low sex drive (haven’t masturbated or had sex in 5 years). I don’t think this is a huge deal considering this isn’t something that will be an issue that early on, a guy can’t just look at my profile/see me in person & know that right off the bat.

I get matches (never been the issue) but it’s always: ghosting, fizzling out, lack of interest (can go both ways), feelings not reciprocated, just not a good match & some guys are just crazy. I just always have a gnawing feeling like guys aren’t attracted to me, I’d get told once in a while that some guy looked at me/found me cute but they never do anything about it. And I don’t either hence why I’m posting this

TLDR: based off the description, is this something that’s unlucky in love?