Search Results: do you need to work at a relationship

Shall I forget about him or tell him?

I met this guy a few years ago and we immediately became friends and we’re very similar in many ways. At that time we were both in relationships but I was unhappily married with a new baby. He became single and told me he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend doesn’t communicate about his relationship with his BM?

For the first two years of our relationship my boyfriend was a single dad with some help from his bm on & off. Once his bm found out about me she’d help 0% of the time. & that became an issue in our relationship because...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I not disrespect him?

looking some advice boyfriend and i had a huge fight because i wanted to see him more then a Sunday morning (update if you saw my last post.) He was hurt because he felt disrespected about his plans and i apperently...

Anonymous

(25-29)

She is regularly having sex with a guy. I pulled back. Why does she keep contacting me?

I went out for dinner with a girl. She told me she was in a long distance relationship. Three months laters we started dating, she told me she ended it because the guy actually had a girlfriend in his hometown. At the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What men really want in a relationship?

1. Men seek honesty Men want to trust their partners and they want that trust reciprocated. If you ever think to yourself that there is something you don't really want to say, and he doesn't really need to know, or it's...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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Guy's Behavior

How do I get back at a "friend" of mine who catfished me for 2 months?

I had been in an online relationship for two months with a girl whom I thought liked me, we were flirty, romantic and all, but then we broke up and I blocked her because she started acting desperate and clingy, and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Whats it like being the breaker from the male POV?

In the healthy scenario i. e., no abuse cheating, distance, career wall etc. It's not good. It never feels good to have spent so much time, enerfy and respurces on a relationship with another human being and then walk...

Gent207-2

Yoda Age: 33

After I said WHY I was single, this guy started acting weird... Why?

I have been going to this Bible study with people around my age (24-28 year olds). This guy named Nathan was super nice, relaxed with me, he would joke with me, and even park next to me to walk with me to my car. Two...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are sexless relationships a waste of time?

Hi I’m new to GAG this is my first question being posted. My girlfriend rarely wants to have sex. We have even less sex than old couples. 95% of the time she wants to cuddle without sex. I’ve tried talking to her and she...

MrBlade88

Xper 2 Age: 27

Hi I’m new to GAG this is my first question being posted. My girlfriend rarely wants to have sex. We have even less sex than old couples. 95% of the time she wants to cuddle without

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My (25M) ex-GF (29F) texted me 3 days after breakup with an “update” and asked if she can tell me she misses me&pics. I'm confused/hurt. What now?

Wednesday she texts me saying that she is in a terrible mind space right now and is struggling giving attention and energy to her 1.5y/o baby that trying to maintain this relationship is super difficult and that she...

Kingsi

Xper 2 Age: 29

Two broken people who are breaking each other even more?

hey everyone, my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 years. it’s been crazy lately and i’m hating it all. we bump heads like no other and we can’t seem to be happy together. i’m convinced that we are together only...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

My (25M) ex-GF (29F) texted me 3 days after no contact with an “update” and asking if she can tell me she misses me. I'm confused and hurt. What now?

Xanixz

Xper 4 Age: 29

Am I cray for wanting to see my ex who broke up with me?

My ex broke up with me mid February, he initially said it was just a break but then turned into a breakup when he never reached out again. I messaged him last month and he told me to move on, he said he isn’t with anyone...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why is it wrong for me to not want a boyfriend and being happy in my own company?

I will admit I'm a very confident, independent, beautiful woman so I do get a lot of guys but I only like to be friends and sleep with them on occasion but that's. I love myself and that's it. I have my own place and no...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I have a chance at getting him back?

My boyfriend and I broke up. We’d only been dating 2 months but he just recently told me he loved me for the first time. Three days later (and several I love yous later), we broke up after a conversation about ideas for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was I being passive aggressive?

I need help figuring if i was passive aggressive or not. Full criticism is always welcome if I was. Even over the weekend he said since I work Monday and he works Tuesday that I can come over one of those nights. I was...

RavenWing057

Xper 4 Age: 33

Why rejection is a good thing!

Well I'm on a two hour train ride ... so let's do a myTake. (On my phone, without my research and after years of not writing any myTakes.. may I add) (Plus additional info: I'm going to stop proofreading and stop changing...

melanieeeB

Editor Age: 32

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I accidentally lied to my girlfriend sort of?

For some back story, me and my girlfriend a couple months ago were arguing over the same issue that is now resolved. While arguing I confided in a friend who is a girl, we stopped really talking I wanna say for a year and...

Anonymous

(25-29)