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So there's a guy i accidentally started chatting to on the dating app im on. he's not after anything long term and i wouldn't be interested as he has a kid but as i found him attractive i swiped right when he didn't have that on his profile.

He told me straight away what he was after, without any of the crap i had before that they wanted to meet without saying what they wanted.

I told him the truth about never done anything before and my health and that if he didn't wanna continue talking he didn't have to.

Now he hinted that i could use him as a way of preparing me for whats to expect when it comes to guys. I did say i have attachment issues but we did agree if it did happen thered be no kissing or dates etc

Only thing im concerned about is im saying there won't be anything risky happening but im not sure if he would be hoping for more.

I've said if were still talking by the time my birthday comes around (14th) that we'd meet for a drink not far from where i live (obv im not gonna tell him that) and see what comes of that

He sent me a few pics, one with pants and one without, even tho i did say to keep them on. But the last pic didn't reveal anything and they put a block on photos too risky

Tried to find him on fb to no use and he obv split from his girlfriend and has court orders (but then my brother does and he hasn't done anything wrong)

Everytime i show/tell people what this guy did they dont understand and are confused why they would behave like this

So i dont know if those who have read my previous msgs or not, but we go to play cards, he stroked my hand one night then the next month id seen him he was ataring and at one point pointed his hands together towards me with his mouth open whilst holding eye contact

Would u class this as flirting? Please be honest and dont just say yes if u feel its being nice, my mum keeps saying this is the only reason why people are agreeing with me!

If youve seen this q before no need to comment, just vote. Thanks!