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I am 15 M and my older brother is 18 M, We grew up very close and he has always been there for me and looked after me since our parents were always working and were barely home. Even when we got older, we were still very close.. however we still shared the same bedroom and bed. I thought it was normal since he would offer to sleep in the same bed as me whenever i got scared when i was a child.. but now that im 15, i do feel a bit uncomfortable sharing a bed and room with my older brother. But that’s not the only problem, he’s always been very overprotective of me and whenever i mentioned that im going to hang out with my friends he gets angry and asks a lot of questions such as “who im hanging out with” or “is it a boy or girl”. He always likes to be very affectionate and calls me “darling” or “baby boy”…and whenever we’re apart such as (school, soccer practice, etc..), he texts me saying how “he misses me” and that “he can’t stand being apart from me”. I honestly don’t know if i should talk to him or tell my parents.. I don’t know what’s going or if i’m overthinking things

I don’t have an issue with my girlfriend being fat. Actually, I have a fat girl fetish. Every time I see a fat girl with giant boobs my hormones spike out of control. Which is the exact reason I started dating my girlfriend in the first place.

Within the last year her she’s just gained too much weight. Like way TOO MUCH!!! She’s 5”4” and 300 pounds, and her knees are constantly hurting because she’s too heavy. I usually don’t like talking to my girlfriends about their weight but I can’t be silent about this situation.

I used to be a paramedic, I’ve seen so many people her size instantly dead from heart attacks. Her own father died from a heart attack from being over weight.

I tried multiple times talking to her about her weight. I’ve tried to work with her and come up with a fitness & diet plan for her. Every time I try she argues with me and makes up dumb excuses. She says “I enjoy eating food, and I don’t have energy to work out”. Last night, I had to talk to her more serious than usual out of concern because I’m really worried. She yelled at me and hung up.

I’ve explained to her that I’m still very attracted to her and that I have lots of fun with her body in the bedroom. And that I’m only wanting her to loose weight because I want her to live, but. No matter how I try to convince her, she’ll just fight back and break down crying. What do I do? Do I just sit here and let her eat herself to death?