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Search Results: is it selfish of me
Vacation with boyfriend?
I want to plan a vacation for me and my boyfriend in July for my birthday and I told him I would love to go to Disneyland. Every time I bring it up he tells me no we can’t go because we cannot afford it. He claims he...
glimmershimmer
Xper 4 Age: 30 Is it bad I only want to date virgin men as a virgin myself?
I'm almost 15 and I look at everyone around me and notice there are barely any guys I know who are virgins. Does it make me selfish that I only want to be with a virgin when the time comes? The way I've always seen it was...
bookishweirdo01
Xper 1 Age: 17 How do I deal with a father in law who I can't stand to be around?
I know I'm going to sound like a terrible person but a lot of people do not understand the realities of living with someone with dementia and not lose there temper at all. I'm just gonna say it how it is and everyone in...
Anonymous
(25-29) My boyfriend rarely sleeps with me an blames it on not having the energy?
I'm using my friends account I'm a woman. Im lucky if I get any adult satisfaction once a month. Just lately it can go once every two or even three months sometimes four which is bad. He says he just doesn't have the...
Anonymous
(30-35) People need to get this through their head
I know many people who care way too much about others. And I know that may sound wrong at first but there is a fine line, when you care and take care of others that's good loving them with all your heart. But there are...
MissMam
Xper 5 Age: 17 Ladies how would you feel if your boyfriend didn’t get you a birthday card?
I am not in any way shape or form saying he should have bought me something. I don’t care about things like that. I am a very down to earth person and it’s the little things that matter to me. My boyfriend does...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I wrong here?
This guy and I have been talking for awhile now and the last 2 weeks he's been in such a grumpy mood. I asked him, "How can I help you" - in terms of how to lighten up his mood. He responded with "By quit bringing...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think you could handle a relationship with someone that has severe mental illness like Bi Polar or PTSD?
Being married to a girl that suffered from severe Bi polar depression and PTSD was one of the hardest relationships I was ever in , One minute they love you and then next they hate you , they start pointing fingers at all...
Anonymous
(30-35) This guy at work finally stood flirting with me and acts normal but I still feel used what do I do?
When I see him talking to other people I get mad inside. I feel used and discarded. I’m glad he finally stopped. Never thought he would. Even after I told him stop many times. But I still was led on and used by him...
Anonymous
(30-35) Toxic ex gave me trauma and is now dating a new girl. Is it bad that I'm angry and think its unfair that he's happily taken while I'm still suffering?
I broke up with my toxic and abusive boyfriend after dating him for almost 5 years. He was the classic green flag who turned out to be a major red flag. The duration and aftermath of the relationship influenced my mental...
Anonymous
(25-29) I noticed women sometimes posting really stupid questions about how the guy they rejected is now “ignoring them”. Is it just selfishness or guilt?
First off there is absolutely nothing wrong if a woman (tactfully yet directly) rejects a man who is interested in her romantically. It’s 100% the right thing to do (if it’s done respectfully) because the guy now knows...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do you deal with work drama?
I have a friend at work and she's got a bit of beef with two co workers. She's a really good friend to me and I really appreciate and respect her. She's like my work mum so if anyone comes for I'm protective of her. It...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 Is it ok just to give up on dating?
I’ve only been in love four times with four men, all of whom really let me down and broke my heart. All the others have just been boring, dishonest, or selfish. My friend Naomi says she likes men but doesn’t see the point...
Anonymous
(36-45) Where do I meet intelligent men?
I’ve had immense problems with finding a man I’m romantically interested in who I can relate to, that isn’t either selfish or boring or out for a shag.
Anonymous
(36-45) Ask for a reasonable Sign from God. Will he answer to convince unbelievers?
You being either an unbeliever or a believer in some other religion than simply "The True Creator", you may ask a reasonable Sign from God which must be a public Sign that a large number of people can witness to know it...
Wade12345
Xper 7 Age: 45 My boyfriend and I want to move in together but my sister and her two kids depend on me?
My boyfriend and I want to get a place together but my sister who doesn’t work and her two kids live with my daughter and I. I can’t just tell them they’ll be homeless because I want to be selfish and get a place with my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Break up advice?
Hey guys so, I just broke up with my 5 year girlfriend. We had a toxic dinamic were she had al the privildege and I all the obligations. She is very beautiful, did modeling and I guess know her beauty made her accostumed...
Anonymous
(30-35) Just broke up, any advice?
Hey guys so, I just broke up with my 5 year girlfriend. We had a toxic dinamic were she had al the privildege and I all the obligations. She is very beautiful, did modeling and I guess know her beauty made her accostumed...
Guy2809
Xper 5 Age: 33 Boyfriend says I'm controlling?
My boyfriend says I'm trying to control him, but I just think he is making bad decisions. I told him he should get a job that pays more, so he can pay his bills. He wants to keep working fast food, which would be fine,...
Anonymous
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