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Going to be 30 soon & ask myself why I’m incapable of being in a relationship with a man, people can say that I’m picky but I don’t fully believe I should take all the blame. Female friends I’ve had in the past seem to get dates easier/are okay with putting out & some have unintentionally made me second guess my looks, as they seem to have it easier yet other people have told me I’m equally/more attractive than they are. The last time I “dated” someone was when I was in my early twenties & I’m glad that ended because this guy felt like settling. It justifies that love isn’t blind & it’s better to be alone vs being in a mediocre relationship. I know I’m not all that but I feel like I should be able to attract quality men, all my life I feel like I’ve been invisible to men. I’ve never been approached in person by a guy I’d like to date (don’t count dating apps) & the very few times someone told me that a guy found me attractive (normally a guy I also thought was attractive), they never told me directly & it was always word of mouth.

I feel like I am cursed, that last person I saw in my early twenties was through a dating app & that’s how I’ve met all of these men I’ve met up with. The apps are continually getting worse & they’ve always had a bad rep, getting matches are never an issue it just fails to go anywhere for a number of reasons. And sometimes when I’ve met guys in person & it didn’t work out, there’s just something about them that doesn’t live up to my expectations (even though they look like their pics). I’m unsure if my dating logic is unrealistic, dating apps are the only way for me to meet people & don’t understand how I can be this old & haven’t been in love yet.

The last thing I’ll add is my lack of sex drive, masturbation doesn’t do anything for me & I haven’t had sex since I saw that person back in my early twenties. However, it’s known that some women need to be in a healthy relationship in order to have that *sexual desire*.

I have one co worker been fooled by guys. So basically just sex and ghosted her.
she would constantly telling people what did he do, just everything about him.
How he looks , what s his favourite. What he said.
after a while she moved to another guy house and soon they r tgt.
now she just keep talking about him 24 /7

i dont mind or care about her private life but she would make really bad comments on women.
like women around her. like co worker s appearance and being single

for example a recent news.
a guy cheated on his 2years wife. She would say oh the girl isn't pretty anymore. That s why.
Guy being assured of sexual assault, she would say oh money conflict or argument between girlfriend and boyfriend.

she also has strong hate on women who date rich men only.

She doesn't mind spending money and pay for the guys dinner although she s just a general clerk.

i ve been stressed hearing all her shitty comment. And how she would keep a male cat instead of female cat. This is just disgusting. And i m just sitting quite close to her.